Sensitive Topic!! What values in life ?

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Debate : What values for a person in lifetime? People who he/she have standing by oneself while alive OR gathering on one's funeral ?

PS - not giving more here... .., make assumptions😳

i definitely value people standing by me while i'm alive. hopefully those same ppl would be at my funeral!

but the number of ppl at ones funeral doesn't necessarily mean that all these ppl care about you. some are simply there to see the "show" if i can call it that.

one girl i knew committed suicide and you shouldve seen the number of ppl at her funeral. the rumour was that she committed suicide b/c she didn't have a high self esteem, didn't like the way she looked. half the ppl there were there simply to see what she looked like..........ppl admitted this to me themselves. is that not sick?

Originally posted by: mittijalebi

i definitely value people standing by me while i'm alive. hopefully those same ppl would be at my funeral!

but the number of ppl at ones funeral doesn't necessarily mean that all these ppl care about you. some are simply there to see the "show" if i can call it that.

one girl i knew committed suicide and you shouldve seen the number of ppl at her funeral. the rumour was that she committed suicide b/c she didn't have a high self esteem, didn't like the way she looked. half the ppl there were there simply to see what she looked like..........ppl admitted this to me themselves. is that not sick?

Rightly said!! at bold true... but I meant people coming to funeral for good deeds... even though not related directly... 😳

Originally posted by: mittijalebi

oh so you mean ppl coming to your funeral b/c you did good deeds.....well i still value ppl who stick by me while alive. they are there to support me when needed.

what good are those who come to my funeral.......i'm dead. 😆

Waht good are people who come to funeral .. lols its not about what good they are for you its about how good you are for others. 😳. without expectations.

Raj, I definitely value people who are with me unconditionally while I am alive than the ones who would come to my funeral.

Now, if we are talking about those people in my funeral who are there to support my family and help them in their hard times....then I will value them as much as those who would be with me during my lifetime 😊

BTW Raj, woh agar abhi tumharey "saath" hai toh shadi ker kara key chhutti karo yaar....funeral tak wait karaoge kya ussey😡........😆 pata nahi kya chal raha hai tumharey dimaag mein...infatuation, love, missing someone, sentimental value, abb funeral🤔..............😉😆

Originally posted by: Gauri_3

Raj, I definitely value people who are with me unconditionally while I am alive than the ones who would come to my funeral.

Now, if we are talking about those people in my funeral who are there to support my family and help them in their hard times....then I will value them as much as those who would be with me during my lifetime 😊

BTW Raj, woh agar abhi tumharey "saath" hai toh shadi ker kara key chhutti karo yaar....funeral tak wait karaoge kya ussey😡........😆 pata nahi kya chal raha hai tumharey dimaag mein...infatuation, love, missing someone, sentimental value, abb funeral🤔..............😉😆

Bold part - number on funeral are coz of one's deed. Very important when u are looking at the proceedings from heaven 😃 I really value that!

@ BTW Raj thing - just hitting all the areas to keep the spirit up here, Ma'am as said before don't go on my topics. its unrelated to my personal self most of times 😳. Again (touch wood) am one of most happy and blessed... Hail the Lord!! 😊

Originally posted by: raj5000

Bold part - number on funeral are coz of one's deed. Very important when u are looking at the proceedings from heaven 😃 I really value that!

Raj, what use is the numbers at the funeral. If your deeds are good, chances are most of the people in your funeral would be with you in your lifetime as well. How does death change the equation here😕...aur waisey bhi, jo achhey karm kartey hain woh phal ki ichha nahi rakhtey😊...so, I would still be indifferent after I die...unless, the attendees are helping my loved ones in any way😃

@ BTW Raj thing - just hitting all the areas to keep the spirit up here, Ma'am as said before don't go on my topics. its unrelated to my personal self most of times 😳. Again (touch wood) am one of most happy and blessed... Hail the Lord!! 😊

it was just a pun...nothing less...nothing more...won't comment on you personally again😊

just one last note...meri taraf sey bhi touchwood Raj.....I hope and pray to the Lord that you remain happy and blessed for ever...my dearest buddy🤗

Originally posted by: raj5000

Sensitive, as per topic name!

Debate : What values for a person in lifetime? People who he/she have standing by oneself while alive OR gathering on one's funeral ?

PS - not giving more here... .., make assumptions😳