Cheeni Kum Vs Nishabdh - Page 6

Originally posted by: sohn

😆 For me.....even if it was Shabana Azmi or Lalita Pawar, it wouldn't matter, cus as long as Akshay Kumar was/is in it...it would definitely be "Namak Zyaada" or "Namkeen" 😛 😛

😆😆😆...may be "garami zyada" 'coz of hot hunk Akshaye...but would you think "namak kum" because heroine won't be as "namkeen". Please do not get me wrong. I absolutely adore shabana and feel she is beautiful and one of the best actresses out there....but would we feel comfortable seeing her romancing a much younger Akshaye???

Originally posted by: Gauri_3

😆😆😆...may be "garami zyada" 'coz of hot hunk Akshaye...but would you think "namak kum" because heroine won't be as "namkeen". Please do not get me wrong. I absolutely adore shabana and feel she is beautiful and one of the best actresses out there....but would we feel comfortable seeing her romancing a much younger Akshaye???

I think nowadays, we wudnt mind watching this combination cus of the way society and also the films are evolving. Definitely not lalita pawar lol, buh yh, Shabana wont come as a shock or wudnt be a 'namak kum' for me. I find her adorable(Im not sure if I can use any other adjectives..buh hope you know what I mean lol) in her own way. We've had recent films where Nandita Das, Deepti Naval...have been in similar roles, not exactly as CK, buh somewhere close depicting the same intention of relationship or friendship.

Originally posted by: sohn

I think nowadays, we wudnt mind watching this combination cus of the way society and also the films are evolving. Definitely not lalita pawar lol, buh yh, Shabana wont come as a shock or wudnt be a 'namak kum' for me. I find her adorable(Im not sure if I can use any other adjectives..buh hope you know what I mean lol) in her own way. We've had recent films where Nandita Das, Deepti Naval...have been in similar roles, not exactly as CK, buh somewhere close depicting the same intention of relationship or friendship.

When I was watching Dil Chahta Hain....something in me was hoping bad that Dimple falls for Akshaye Khanna towards the end 😊

I hope this is what you were asking me, cus I might have got it wrong 😕

yeah, you got the essence right. In Dil Chahat Hai, Dimple was shown to resist Akshaye 'coz she was aware of their age difference. Akshaye's mom did not approve either. why is our society this way??? beats me!!!

Originally posted by: Gauri_3

yeah, you got the essence right. In Dil Chahat Hai, Dimple was shown to resist Akshaye 'coz she was aware of their age difference. Akshaye's mom did not approve either. why is our society this way??? beats me!!!

Originally posted by: sohn

A dialog from one very scary AB movie called "Babul" caught my attention that day. The finale where he is all preachy preachy ...he says something like ..

Yeh paramparaayein insaano keliye bani thi
Insaan paramparaaon keliye nahin..
Kya paramparaayein hi sab kuchh hain?
Insaan kuchh bhi nahin??

I think our society is precisely like that. Our world changes everyday, n some paramparaayein dont go hand in hand with time. Peoples' sensitivities are triggered, suddenly a lot is at stake, culture, religion, beliefs..you name it...and the happiness or wishes of a human being go unnoticed. But Im sure it will change just that it will take time...cus as they say "The only constant thing in life is change" and I do believe in it.

very well said soniya. agree with you here. but aren't human beings and paramparaayen co-dependent on each other? Take paramparaye out so that humans don't have to sacrifice their desires.........what next...eventually people will be saying that why law and order??? after all, at times, law does supercede the humans....they are bound by the laws😊

agree with your quote on change but how come, even after so many years, Indian Culture still seems to be stagnant. why is change so slow and so painful in our culture?

This is my personal take on older woman and younger man relation. It is a proven fact that at the same age level most women are more mature compared to men. So if a woman is older to man there is higher chances of juvenile behaviour from the guy's side😊. Another factor is women will look older compared to the younger spouse and if such factors won't affect the relation then good. But it does. Will I fall for a younger man? NEVER. Will I like someone in my family falling for a younger man? NEVER. So more than the society it is us, the individual, who will become uncomfortabe in such arrangement.

Originally posted by: Maya_M

This is my personal take on older woman and younger man relation. It is a proven fact that at the same age level most women are more mature compared to men. So if a woman is older to man there is higher chances of juvenile behaviour from the guy's side😊. Another factor is women will look older compared to the younger spouse and if such factors won't affect the relation then good. But it does. Will I fall for a younger man? NEVER. Will I like someone in my family falling for a younger man? NEVER. So more than the society it is us, the individual, who will become uncomfortabe in such arrangement.

Exactly my thoughts, Maya! 😊

I was just thinking about how to put this properly, and I saw your post!!

Originally posted by: Maya_M

This is my personal take on older woman and younger man relation. It is a proven fact that at the same age level most women are more mature compared to men. So if a woman is older to man there is higher chances of juvenile behaviour from the guy's side😊. Another factor is women will look older compared to the younger spouse and if such factors won't affect the relation then good. But it does. Will I fall for a younger man? NEVER. Will I like someone in my family falling for a younger man? NEVER. So more than the society it is us, the individual, who will become uncomfortabe in such arrangement.