When love ends??

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Dew

@Morning_Dew

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Posted: 18 years ago

#41

Good questions Ani .. infact this subject is still very confusing to me so can't write anything over it ...😊

Originally posted by: qwertyesque
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Its pointless tio be idealistic in love.... romeo and juliet are in books only... so in reality love fades out - like "out of sight, out of mind" Its impossible to say you can never forget somebody. However we might be in denial.. its always possible to fall out of love and start loving anew... Life has no grand rules of idealism but just fleeting finiteness...😊.. the question is are you open minded enough to accept it?😊.. and our toolkit in this effort is a short-lived memory... I remember the song "karoge yaad toh har baat yaad aayegi"... but if you dont you are free to move on....

have a question .... even had this in my mind before the fall impact 😆

I can co-relate your explanation with most of real life people . who are compromising with each other with out true satisfaction .. however at the same time find some of them who live realy for each other. I couldn't explain the death of wife just after 10days of her husbands death (both died naturally) I couldn't explain when a man decided to stay single after the death of his loving wife despite his own children wanted him to get married . I couldn't explain a life of young couple I observed over the period of ten years..they had certain unexplainable thing between them (wife had disability and man was perfectly alright)...

So the question is ...... is love nothing but illusion ? or it does exist but hard to find ... not every one can complete his\her partner the way it is required by his\her pre programmed self .

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Manju

@Modesty

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Posted: 18 years ago

#42

Is it possible to fall out of love with a person you have loved with all ur heart?[/P

Yes if the person you loved cheats on you and falls in love with the other person.

For e.g. Salman Aishwayra split. Aish found out that Sallu was cheating on her. Now we all know about Aish's immense dislike for him.

But I have an example that negates this. Remember Tom Cruise -Nicole Kidman split? Even though she felt hurt and humiliated when Tom left her for Penelope Cruz she was still in love with him she said.

In the breakups and divorces...does the love really go away or does it still lay there dormant in the heart?

I know that tis very easy for love to get converted to hatred but difficult the other way round. So in the course of a break up if you've developed a strong dislike for a person I do not think love can be rekindled that easily.

Thanks. LTNS. Anita I am so happy to meet you again.

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MNMS

@MNMS

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Posted: 18 years ago

#43

Nahinnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn... yeh nahin hooooo sukta!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

🤔

Phir se love topic... again... again... Has DM converted into a love relationship forum???? 😕

Im off... triple faint!! This much amount of love is tooo much to handle.. 😛

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Anita

@ani11

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Posted: 18 years ago

#44

Originally posted by: Gorgeous_Rosa

u r always welcome aniii🤗🤗..i aint know ur name.lol....

i liked ur siggy tooo..it's very nice....i luved it....😳

🤗🤗...the name is Anita...and thanks for appreciating the siggy....i love it too..😊

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lighthouse

@lighthouse

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Posted: 18 years ago

#45

Originally posted by: MNMS
Nahinnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn... yeh nahin hooooo sukta!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

🤔

Phir se love topic... again... again... Has DM converted into a love relationship forum???? 😕

Im off... triple faint!! This much amount of love is tooo much to handle.. 😛

😆 😆 Haan Maryam.. Didn't you know Love makes world go around...😉

And where have been lately busy fainting...yes DM has been discussing lately Sex (Freindship bet opp sexes) Lies (Love) and platonic friendship.😕..... 😃

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Anita

@ani11

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Posted: 18 years ago

#46

Originally posted by: Morning_Dew

Good questions Ani .. infact this subject is still very confusing to me so can't write anything over it ...😊
Thanks Dewey...😊

So the question is ...... is love nothing but illusion ? or it does exist but hard to find ... not every one can complete his\her partner the way it is required by his\her pre programmed self .

according to me love is very real and not an illusion but in todays fast paced life it does kind of illusion.......people jump into intimate relationship without even realising whether what they feel for the person is love or lust......

Edited by ani11 - 18 years ago

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Anita

@ani11

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Posted: 18 years ago

#47

Originally posted by: Modesty

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Anita

@ani11

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Posted: 18 years ago

#48

Originally posted by: MNMS
Nahinnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn... yeh nahin hooooo sukta!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

🤔

Phir se love topic... again... again... Has DM converted into a love relationship forum???? 😕

Im off... triple faint!! This much amount of love is tooo much to handle.. 😛

Kyon nahinnnnnnnnn hooooooo saktaaaaaaaa............😆

😆........love can never be too much.......😳

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souro

@souro

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Posted: 18 years ago

#49

Originally posted by: ani11

Kyon nahinnnnnnnnn hooooooo saktaaaaaaaa............😆

😆........love can never be too much.......😳

It sure can be too much for innocent bystanders like us.😛

Back to the topic. Laws of nature says everything that has a beginning is bound to have an end. By that law love begins between two people and therefore it must end. It may end with their death or it may end for some other reason. So, falling out of love is definitely possible. However, IMO forgetting completely about a person that someone fell in love with is not possible unless s/he develops amnesia. Afterall our memory is not a HDD, that we can erase whatever part whenever we like.

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Anita

@ani11

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Posted: 18 years ago

#50

Originally posted by: souro

It sure can be too much for innocent bystanders like us.😛

Back to the topic. Laws of nature says everything that has a beginning is bound to have an end. By that law love begins between two people and therefore it must end. It may end with their death or it may end for some other reason. So, falling out of love is definitely possible. However, IMO forgetting completely about a person that someone fell in love with is not possible unless s/he develops amnesia. Afterall our memory is not a HDD, that we can erase whatever part whenever we like.

Does'nt the law also say that the matter can never be destroyed and it will exist in some form whether we are able to see it or not...