No pravachans from Mrs Funny bones?? - Page 6

Originally posted by: return_to_hades

@Bold - But that fits in the definition of masochism doesn't it.

A masochist would say "being whipped by the one I love isn't suffering for me."

Are you telling me my definition of masochism is wrong?

No it doesn't .. And yes , your definition is wrong .. But then again , they have always been wrong ( not just about masochism ) .. You do have a virtual history which can attest to your tendency to create customized definitions out of thin air ...

But you are hell bent on fitting your customized definition to the current discussion .. Because you wont have it any other way .. All thanks to "your facts" .. 😆

So if fast on Saturdays for Lord Hanuman , in your dictionary , that makes me a masochist ..believe me i dont get any sort of sexual gratification out of it .. But the problem is you wont take no for an answer .. You want to make me believe that i get sexually aroused while fasting on Saturdays .. And i cant change that but i wont have you shoving down "your insane facts" others throats .. Sorry , no can't do .. 😎

You shit the bed RTH .. You used masochism as a slur and now there is no way out , no matter how many excuses yoy give .. With the kind of "imaginary facts" that you cling on to so desperately , its not that difficult to see y .. 😆

Exhibit A

Originally posted by: return_to_hades

Are you telling me my definition of masochism is wrong?

Exhibit B

Originally posted by: Pain-in-ur-Neck

Masochism: the tendency to derive pleasure, especially sexual gratification, from one's own pain or humiliation

Fasting in no way is painful or humiliating!

Well done. I was indeed playing fast and loose with the definition of masochism for shits and giggles. It was fun while it lasted. 👏

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Sidebar:

Not everyone will choose to fast. Fasting is not mandatory to be a good spouse. Refusing to fast does not mean one loves their spouse any less.

Do whatever you want that brings you happiness. But also a humble request, if the catty aunty at the community karva chauth starts dissing on a wife for not fasting - SHUT HER DOWN. Its a choice, not a mandate.

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Sidebar 2:

Masochism is not a slur. I would never use masochism as a slur. Masochism is a choice many people happily and healthily engage in. I used masochism because I knew deep down someone's moralistic uprightness would be uncomfortable by it. If anyone was uncomfortable with being a masochist or the notion of masochism, then please open your mind to the fact that people come in a wide variety of what makes them happy.

Originally posted by: Pain-in-ur-Neck

Masochism: the tendency to derive pleasure, especially sexual gratification, from one's own pain or humiliation

Fasting in no way is painful or humiliating!

Try telling that to RTH. 😆

Everyone should intermittent fast everyday, not just on KC. Do it for yourself.

Originally posted by: return_to_hades

Exhibit A

Exhibit B

Well done. I was indeed playing fast and loose with the definition of masochism for shits and giggles. It was fun while it lasted. 👏

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Sidebar:

Not everyone will choose to fast. Fasting is not mandatory to be a good spouse. Refusing to fast does not mean one loves their spouse any less.

Do whatever you want that brings you happiness. But also a humble request, if the catty aunty at the community karva chauth starts dissing on a wife for not fasting - SHUT HER DOWN. Its a choice, not a mandate.

@ Blue : I see you finally conceded. Good call. 👍🏼

@ Red : Thats all that we were saying. How hard was that ? .. 😆

Originally posted by: return_to_hades

Well done. I was indeed playing fast and loose with the definition of masochism for shits and giggles. It was fun while it lasted. 👏

Trying to save your face now ... Not very well done I would say! 😆

Originally posted by: Nahiiinnn

Everyone should intermittent fast everyday, not just on KC. Do it for yourself.

Please consult with a doctor before choosing any fad diet.

And if you are pregnant, are ill, or are immunocompromised in any way, consult a doctor before ritual fasting and have Gatorade and crackers ready if you feel faint.

Originally posted by: --Pro.vo.King--

@ Blue : I see you finally conceded. Good call. 👍🏼

@ Red : Thats all that we were saying. How hard was that ? .. 😆

I am very tempted to go on to prove fasting is humiliating and painful. Maybe next year on karva chauth or Ramadan.

@Blue-Ice you fast for your husband, I will be fasting all Thanksgiving day so I can eat maximum turkey, gravy and stuffing for dinner. The things we do for love. 😛🤗

Originally posted by: return_to_hades

Sidebar 2:

Masochism is not a slur. I would never use masochism as a slur. Masochism is a choice many people happily and healthily engage in. I used masochism because I knew deep down someone's moralistic uprightness would be uncomfortable by it. If anyone was uncomfortable with being a masochist or the notion of masochism, then please open your mind to the fact that people come in a wide variety of what makes them happy.

No , no , no , no and No !

You cant have your cake and eat it too.

Keeping aside the discussion on whether or not its a slur .. The fact remains that YOU DID USE IT AS A SLUR in this thread .. Now that we have your confession documented in this thread , if fasting wasn't really about masochism , why did you use it in the first place ? .. Was it to praise fasting ? .. We all know the answer to that question but i ll let you come up with another load of crap to justify you using it as a slur .. The truth is RTH , you did shit the bed here .. In more than one way .. Not only did you demean other people's right to live their lives but you also used masochism as a slur .. And that is FACT .. And it is not your fact or my fact kind of a fact .. It is a Fact , Fact .. 😊