Women are always right and the man is always wrong? - Page 2

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Actually, every time a woman says something, the first reaction is to say "what if it is a false accusation" or "why is she saying this now" or "she just wants publicity", so I don't know what feminist utopia you are living in because it is definitely not India.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Hichki


Arey, but feminists should decline such favors no? Tapsee cries coz she was dropped from a film unceremoniously ,would she have complained if she was given special treatment over karthik on the sets? No!



The men are in the wrong in your example though. They are cheating on their wives and taking advantage of women. Who knows, a lot of women might thing they might get fired if they speak out or lose their reputation. That happens all the time in company settings. You might give a silly anecdote to refuse that, but I can give you a lot of surveys and studies in return.

Secondly, how many people actually say no to special treatment? Guys get special treatment all the time. That's why India is a patriarchial society. The only reason why people put women on a pedestal is because Indians think women are coy, dainty creatures who don't indulge in bad things. The second a women disapproves that claim, she is thrown from that pedestal.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Hichki


Arey, but feminists should decline such favors no? Tapsee cries coz she was dropped from a film unceremoniously ,would she have complained if she was given special treatment over karthik on the sets? No!


I have worked with some of the type of women you have mentioned above- the kinds that get ahead based on looks and flirting - and none of them are remotely feminist. I remember one of them bashing the MeToo movement because "it made men afraid to approach women or flirt with them because any woman can then accuse them of inappropriate behaviour." I told her that if men are afraid to flirt, it's a good thing, as flirting should be kept out of the workplace.. and she looked so deeply offended 😆
Also as somebody said above, the bigger fault is obviously of the tharki bosses who can't keep their dick in their pants - with a decent man at the helm, none of these incompetence and unfair promotion problems would even arise in the first place.
Edited by Sarath_Pandey - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
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On social media, it seems like women get the benefit of doubt when it comes to the metoo accusations. As soon as a man is accused, most condemn the man. Even in this forum, as soon as the man is accused, he is condemned. Sushant is still condemned by many in here even after the woman said he didn't do anything wrong.
Edited by cool-boy_018 - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
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You know i m telling the truth.
Some have condmned some stars like akshay even before accusations
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: cool-boy_018

On social media, it seems like women get the benefit of doubt when it comes to the metoo accusations. As soon as a man is accused, most condemn the man. Even in this forum, as soon as the man is accused, he is condemned. Sushant is still condemned by many in here even after the woman said he didn't do anything wrong.


Exactly
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Yes cool_boy I hope you now can empathize with how women have been feeling for thousands of years. Take it as a learning opportunity.

My husband faces the same issues with some women at work who discriminate men! It happens. It is a result of being discriminated all your life...sometimes you tend to go to the other extreme. When you face discrimination, you sometimes do the same to others.
Edited by LifeOLicious - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Hichki


Arey, but feminists should decline such favors no?



I'm sure feminists will decline such favours. The ones who don't, are not feminists.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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😆 Oh poor helpless men. Oh much they've suffered. Society is so unfair 😭 Life is so hard for them in a patriarchal society. 😒 Its almost as if they didn't create it themselves 😲 Ask those men to keep it in their pants and perhaps everything will fall into place. 😆 Till then, poor poor men 😭
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: AllThatCritique

😆Oh poor helpless men. Oh much they've suffered. Society is so unfair😭Life is so hard for them in a patriarchal society.😒Its almost as if they didn't create it themselves😲Ask those men to keep it in their pants and perhaps everything will fall into place.😆Till then, poor poor men😭



Men should be the last one complaining esp men from India, Pakistan, Afghanistan and the like. Like I can even get some men complaining from USA and other places, but I get so shocked every time I see men from India, etc complaining. Every time I go to Quora, it's like I go to a different world where all men do is to complain and how world and life is so unfair and against men. I get confused, shock and don't know to laugh or be angry at such stupidity and delusions.

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