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Damn!
Very well researched work you guys have done. I am glad you pointed out defense mechanism and put some freud's work as well. We have been conditioned from birth by parents who just want to make us as society compatible - to live according to rules and regulations, belief system which takes big toll on people's life specially on self worth, self esteem, lot of personality issues as well. One major part is how important our parenting is, not only for girls but boys as well. They both need to be more assertive for their needs, respectful towards each other, know the boundaries, treat each other as human not objects and lastly be responsible - be responsible for your own happiness, someone not treating you the way it is supposed to be - their is always an option of cutting that toxicity out.
Last but not the least - it all comes from us "self". Be good parents - future or current parents. Do good parenting to your own kids and understand them not suppress, give moral values specially on equality and treating other person in respect; No means NO.
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