Are Men Secure ?? - Page 12

Originally posted by: lighthouse

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How do you know who has a clean heart? Just because a guy seems like a nice guy and acts all decent and watches what and how he says ...😕 At least a flirtatious guy wears his mind on a sleeve and it is upto us whether to call him a creep or lucid..

If a flirtatious married guy says to a female friend of wife that you are looking sexy and hot , does that make him creepy? I don't think so.. That is how this person talks and is with everyone.. On the other hand this quiet husband who never flirts with anyone is giving typical corner of the eye stare at some woman would certainly make him look creepy...We all have our judgement meters and are able to judge who is acting out of the character and when...

😲haila LH, phir to most men will be creepy....."most of them give typical corner of the eye stare" whenever a hot chick is passing by😆.....and if they won't take note of a hot chick, wouldn't the chick feel insulted😛....j/k😆

I agree with qwerty, CB, QT, and Maya about seeing a pattern in posts and coming to a judgement based on that. I understand that at times, we may end up judging someone wrong, but better safe than sorry.

About men being insecure/undafe...I still maintain what I posted in my very first post here:

Originally posted by: Gauri_3

😆 😆 some men are definitely insecure.....they can't even digest women rubbing shoulders with them at workplace 😛 😆 ...j/k

On a serious note...I agree with you Mythili ji. But insecurity won't be the word for that....I think now a days, some men are facing reverse discrimination....based on gender. Their are some women who blackmail them to get their way. Due to society's perception of male being the hunter all these years.....it is, at times, difficult for people to digest that the hunter is bein hunted by some of the warp minded preys 😉

On top of that, some perverts have also become equal opportunity abusers 😛 ....😆 .....sorry, don't mean to be disrespectful but can't help thinking about two of the recent debates....the social murders..and the gender bias....both have some very creative excuses presented by men for defending what most of them have been doing all along....and then you put us women on defense with this thread 😆 😆

Okay....back to topic...People in power, be it male or females, should refrain from using their power to create an environment that is uncomfortable for people around them. Seriously, I am against any kind of abuse or opression against any gender....period.

Originally posted by: lighthouse

as long as that freedom of expression does not call other members of internet community prostitutes, mataharis, 😛😛😛 / gigollos..😛😛😛
To all those who so honestly feel for the freedomm of expression, would others using their freedom to give you names justified?? or would it not be a freedom of speech but personal attack then? 😛😛😛

peeps.....14 pages bher gaye iss topic per....itnee insecurity....ek abla naari sey 😉 😛 😆

Originally posted by: Gauri_3

peeps.....14 pages bher gaye iss topic per....itnee insecurity....ek abla naari sey 😉 😛 😆

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and u forgot to add perhaps a mentally unstable one apart from abalaa 😉. that was also mentioned.

Originally posted by: mermaid_QT

as long as that freedom of expression does not call other members of internet community prostitutes, mataharis, 😛😛😛 / gigollos..😛😛😛
To all those who so honestly feel for the freedomm of expression, would others using their freedom to give you names justified?? or would it not be a freedom of speech but personal attack then? 😛😛😛

bang on QT.....agree with you here.

Originally posted by: qwertyesque

Using foul language is acceptable.. but for a woman to ask evidence of sexual misoconduct would be embarassing... So given a choice.. its better to be safe than sorry. I wouldnt expect to get away after I am blamed of sexual misconduct...however unreasonable and primitive this may sound. The point is if people become judgemental and jump the gun in innocuous circumstances then thats terrible let down in the internet world..

A person accused to sexual misconduct is accused of being of the lowest possible human behaviour, the punishment for the crime is a stigma to be carried forever.If true the victim carries the stain for the life. On the other hand if not proven the accused carries a feeling of being emotionally raped forever.

Either way one of the person(either the victim or the accused) is of the lowest level of a human being.

If all it takes is an embrassing question, I dont mind asking it

NOTE- consider this spam since i have named names 😃.. and debate mansion rule does not allow that, so this is just a personal sweet opinion- srorry for spamming viewbie Sir! 😃

I cannot believe this thread os about "Are men insecure"- Looking at the unstoppable nari-shakti in 15 pages, they may feel like 😆 😆 😆 But nah.. those who participated actively here- soumya, qwerty, anshu , sareg and CB have no reasons to feel insecure about some woman making up a story against them!

Originally posted by: Gauri_3

bang on QT.....agree with you here.

how would calling those names stack up against calling someone a child molestor?

isnt A=B? why is one lower than another?

Originally posted by: sareg

how would calling those names stack up against calling someone a child molestor?
isnt A=B? why is one lower than another?

if one can prove either, i will give the accuser Ben of dou.😛

Originally posted by: mermaid_QT

if one can prove either, i will give the accuser Ben of dou.😛

the responsibility of proving lies with the accuser😃