two timing or real love - Page 4

Originally posted by: ScorpionGunner

Is there love exists ! 😲

Originally posted by: King-Anu

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These are overlapping terms. We have to pick either affection or like as a base and then use it to characterize these terms. Let me present a scientific model based on affection as base

Crush - 0-30 % affection

Like- >30-50 % affection

Superificial love - >50-75% affection

Love- >75-100 % affection

Anything above 100

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@ V, I have not seen him either. Hope he comes back.

Originally posted by: King-Anu

Of course love and commitment/loyalty are not the same or else they would be synonyms of each other, lol

I think commitment and loyalty are integral part of love. Love is not integral part of commitment or loyalty. A servant, a dog, a friend can be commited and loyal to you but they dont have to love you for it. However if someone loves you then they cannot be disloyal and non-commital. To me its not possible.

Agreed with the bold part. Not too sure about the later part 🤔 Lot of people profess love but remain non committal if not exactly disloyal 😕

Main tujko pane ki hasrat mita nahi sakta...
ye intezaar ki shama bhuja nahi sakta...
zamana keh raha ki ab tu aa nahi sakti..
mujeh yakeen zamane pey aa nahi sakta..
meri har ek saans mein khushboo teri hai..
kisi aur se ye rishta main bana nahi sakta.

- from start of a Govinda movie

arrey kabeera, 😆

Rishtey hamesha soch samaaj kar nahi banaate

baas kabhi kabhi yuunhi baan jaate hain

beena soche saamjhe 😉

Originally posted by: Angel-likeDevil

@bold --- What you mean to say is, it would be 'shared' with 2-50 others also? :P ...what I meant was Love is such a great divine feeling that you see God in those that you love(not 2-50 other girls, but that 1 person, apart from your child and parents). You become devoted to them, love towards them becomes like a prayer... let me stop here because I sound silly.

No you don't sound silly at all, carry on 😛

I understand what you are saying. What I was trying to say was that if love is something so great and good and divine wouldn't it make sense to spread it around instead of being miserly about it in the name of commitment or loyalty. Now it may be me who is sounding silly

Let me try again---

If we come across one person who is so good that we see divinity in that person- as you say.

Now what if we come across another person or persons who are also equally good and we also see divinity in them? 😳

It may take some luck to come across that many good people --but even then 😆

@red --- True! I never think that commitment or loyalty is love.. When a person is truly in love he automatically wouldnt want to have relations with other girls.

Agreed. He wouldn't want to have relations with another and wont do anything silly that would end his present relation.

But that cannot be said of those who are commited and loyal - that they love you deeply. They may be keeping out of extra-marital just so to save themselves from complicating their lives, or out of fear of the society etc. Wouldnt their mind waver? what about their minds???

@ bold- That's it! The mind wavering part. Just how many can honestly claim that their mind never wavered? That would be a super human feat

Does the mind wavering make a person a cheat? A person can control his action but what about his thoughts? How far can that be controlled 😕

So then, again the question... what is love if it means that a man can be commited and loyal, even though he might not love deeply...? :P

That could be due to compassion, loyalty, moral righteousness or sometimes fear 🤓

IDK what the definition is... but for myself, I'd want my future husband to be my best-friend, till my last breathe. He can fantasize(which will inevitably happen) or have affairs, doesnt matter, but he should come back to me, everyday... be emotionally attached to me... even better if he's an open book, just like how best friends are.

@ bold 😲 😕 That would matter to most! Some would even kill for it

But I guess if a person after all the wavering (mental and not physical I suppose) comes back it would suggest some amount of loyalty. 🤔

Maybe we cannot really say much on these things - commitment, loyalty, love... but everyone knows that they want a best friend, a close soul mate till they die :)

Yes, but does a soul mate have to be a life partner that's what I had asked 😊

Originally posted by: King-Anu

I don't think I have discussed love that much anytime on this forum or in life. Credit to Zorro to get this out of me. I need to detoxify myself now.

Thanks!

Originally posted by: zorrro

On one hand we have Angel who sees divinity in love and on theother we have King who sees toxins 😳

See what happens when you see too much of bollywood? 😆