two timing or real love - Page 2

Originally posted by: King-Anu

Of course it is not you. lol. This wily old cunning fox has been on this forum long enough to understand that it is not the poster who is in question but his or her "friend". lol. I understand the standard procedure. lage raho munna bhai.

😆 Is that experience speaking 😉

@ your topic. I do not think there is any standard answer to this question. There are different levels of affection. If someone is interested in two people then perhaps that does not fit the definition of love. Maybe a lower level of affection as like or crush. lol. That is the only answer I can think of.

So you believe that a person can love only one person at a time.

next Q that follows is what about at another time?

I dont believe in two timing. It is against my nature. I cannot cheat anyone. lol.

Alright then answer this one - Can a person get out of love with the first and then love another or is that also no-no from your side ?

Originally posted by: Angel-likeDevil

A person can like two people...or even 50 people(of opposite sex) at the same time..

Thats better 😆

but there's a difference, with whom would he/she like to spend the rest of his life with?

How can anybody possibly predict something like that 😕

There, there can be only one choice...if he's unable to decide, ask him to move on... he's just crushing on both/50 others. Nothing serious, he should rather spare other girls of keeping them in illusion that he may make a commitment.

I dont think my friend was keeping anyone under any illusion. He had made it quite plain that he could not show any favouritism. Its the girls who were trying to force him to discriminate

The other girls also should understand and move on when they get to know, rather than be angry with him, "threaten" him... 😆

If only all the girls were this understanding 🤗

Originally posted by: Summer3

A Casanova has many loves but he is never serious with any of them.

If one truly loves a certain girl then I believe he will not fool around. But problem is most so called "loves" are superficial.

Originally posted by: King-Anu

Message is that should happen to a cheater. lol

Originally posted by: Schindler

if you love two people at the same time, choose the second. Because if you really loved the first one, you wouldn't have fallen for the second. 😆

Originally posted by: zorrro

Unfortunately there is no instrument to measure the levels of depth

Originally posted by: zorrro

Originally posted by: zorrro

Originally posted by: Angel-likeDevil

But, see...when you see someone, like someone, you must be able to say whether he can be your potential life partner right?

Is that really necessary? Does a person we like or love have to be seen as a potential life partner?

It's a very complicated issue. IDK much about it because, personally, I dont see myself wanting a relationship with anyone I meet or will meet on daily basis... and if I'll have one, it's gonna be a decision of my entire family, not just mine ..

Thats having trust in the family consensus which sounds reasonable to me.

And most importantly, my feeling is that you can love anyone if you are basically a loving person...

So unlike King-Anu you believe that it is possible to love more than one person at a time for a person who is loving by nature. 😛

So, I cannot really comment on this with clarity, because what'll happen in my life(or what I want in life) is quite different from what majority people want.

That got me curious 😆

Originally posted by: King-Anu

Of course..its common sense. If you love more than 1 then maybe its not love. lol.

if you go by movies and dramas then people do end up loving person.

The movies can be bs 😉 😆

my take is that there is no logical answer to anything related to affection/like/love. how do we define it? how do we apply it?

Million dollar question my friend 🤔

Sounds like that God question. No clear definition of what is love exactly. The word is used to denote a lot of different emotions actually.

i guess if it is such a big thing then it should not happen with multiple people or time. lol. thats logic and common sense answe

I differ here. If it is that big then why should it be so confined or restricted 🤓

is this my motw now? lol. I am not a love guru.

Missing my maha guru V 😭 Anyone heard from him?

i guess for others it can happen and maybe it happens. maybe people love someone and then things do not work out they get involved with other person and there they get in love as well. lol. but logically questions arises..was the first one love at all? maybe the next one is a compromise

if you ask from my point of view based on logic..i think such strong emotion/feelings happen to one person..anything else can happen and does happen but we have to put it or the one before in a lesser category...if you dont do that then anything goes...which does not make sense to me. lol

Sorry but I fail to see any logic there 😔

I think what You described is more of attachments and their comparisons.

Next Q though not an MOTW --- Is love same as attachment 😛

My story was in context of a boy two timing and what should be the reaction of girl. lol. anyone can be a cheater. I cant tell much i dont have any experience there. However i wont call them extortionists..thats hlittle arsh. lol

Ok lets call them terrorists then as thats the efect they are having on my friend 😆