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arranged marriages as kewl but j8ust not for me!!!!

i just can't think baout living forver with a person who i don't love

i dont mean to be negative but almost everybody in india has arranged marraiges and they hardly get divorces (i think) and people in the west mostly get love marraiges and we have the biggest divorce rates in the world

I ahve only one saying even though I am not married an have no experience that you should only get married if you respect/care for the other partner.Sometime's love marriages don't always work out as they are supposed to. In Kashish Ratna and Anand love each other but in the end their relationship won't last because Anad crawls back into Pia's life. It doesn't mean that all love marriages don't work but sometimes what you think is love can just be an infactuation and some of the love amrriages don't last due to miscommunication and misunderstandings.

marriages are made in heaven 😊. Does anyone agree with me on that? Those who are spiritual would agree. As we sometimes meet many people in our daily life and sometimes have interest on. But only with one special person we feel to live life long. Marriages can be love or arranged. Long back majority are arranged marriage. The pros & cons are when its arranged marriage, the parents check out all the information prior making the marriage arrangement. Love marriage is decided by both who love each other. Not all arranged marriage are happily lived and nor all love marriages breaks half way thru. So its all depends on how a person seriously take responsible of the marriages and commitments too. Compramising over small arguments and etc.. In arranged marriages, they bound more over respects and etc as its family decision, couple tend to fall in love after marriageg and life continous. In love marriage they get to know each other and marriages starts as bound of commitments. So as a summay both love or arranged marriages goes success only whn the person who are engaged to it try to make it happily travel in the journey of marriages. 😳

Originally posted by: fatty1

what will happen to you guys if you did love marriage?

same here...If I fell in love, I'd have to sacrifice it 'cause I would feel so guilty for being the first ever person to have had love marrige and I'd never be able to live in peace..so I'd rather give him up! 😭

hmm... i think that arrange marriages are so hard... i mean u need to know a person b4 u spend ur whole life with them...

thats my opinion!

Originally posted by: uma_shanmugam

marriages are made in heaven 😊. Does anyone agree with me on that? Those who are spiritual would agree. As we sometimes meet many people in our daily life and sometimes have interest on. But only with one special person we feel to live life long. Marriages can be love or arranged. Long back majority are arranged marriage. The pros & cons are when its arranged marriage, the parents check out all the information prior making the marriage arrangement. Love marriage is decided by both who love each other. Not all arranged marriage are happily lived and nor all love marriages breaks half way thru. So its all depends on how a person seriously take responsible of the marriages and commitments too. Compramising over small arguments and etc.. In arranged marriages, they bound more over respects and etc as its family decision, couple tend to fall in love after marriageg and life continous. In love marriage they get to know each other and marriages starts as bound of commitments. So as a summay both love or arranged marriages goes success only whn the person who are engaged to it try to make it happily travel in the journey of marriages. 😳

👏 i agree with u.. it is fate.. who u marry.. and as far as love ora rranged marriage goes im for both i dun mind any and my family doesnt either.. n ur rt it does depend on the ppl n how much they are willing to compromise and understand eachother

Thanks Sweetz,

If arranged marriage, then fall in love wit spouse and make if more merrier... if love marriage then, start with commitments seriously and stay on loving. Loving together, shouldering responsibilites together and growing older together something amazing.. keywords are compramise and show more love 😛

hi alisa
good topic for discussion.and i think its really very difficult to decide which one is the better one.is love marriage is better than arrange marriage or is arrange marriage is better than love marriage.

and i think both has his own charm and importance.if both marriages are succesful for the respective couples then their marriage is always best.but if somehow it is unsuccesful then choice will always be the another one.isn't it.
and moreover marriages are made in heaven.so how and in what way it will happen in our coming future, we can't say.

Originally posted by: sharanb

i dont mean to be negative but almost everybody in india has arranged marraiges and they hardly get divorces (i think) and people in the west mostly get love marraiges and we have the biggest divorce rates in the world

That is a good point, and I agree with you. 😉