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How can 'feminism' be the solution to this problem ?..😲 😲.. your suggested methods to deal with this problem are spot-on but terming it 'feminism' is counterproductive in my opinion..mainly bcoz victims of male rapes fear being stigmatized as weak sissy boys .a.k.a 'feminine' & if u approach them for helping them with something called 'feminism' they will run away bcoz the terminology is in itself messed up as it will off-handedly confirm victim's stereotypical feminine status.. why name it 'feminism' ?.. cant people come up with a gender-neutral term in this case ?.. if u really intend to help the victim here, you wouldnt have a problem with changing the name to something that is gender-neutral...besides, we have already had our share of debates on what feminism actually stands for in another thread "Feminism in India" ,so i am not looking forward to the same debate again.. my point here is , helping a male victim with 'feminism' is not helping..this help should be made independent of 'feminism' & should be based on 'gender-neutrality'.. only such an approach will help male victims to break away from the stereotypes & seek help, otherwise you ll push these victims further away since ur approach though anti-patriarchal , still is emasculating since u ll further strengthen the belief that the victims are sissy as they are taking a refuge under 'feminism'.. moreover, anti-patriarchal approach need not be feminine-inspired or emasculating , it can also be gender-neutral.. approaching a male victim to help with 'feminism' is further emasculating for the already emasculated male victim..so help the male victim with proper intentions & people can/should save the aggressive marketing of 'feminism' for some other time...

@ topic dealing with male rapes ( though the topic post has been edited out but i am guessing this is it)

I think almost all points regarding male rapes have been covered , so i am just gonna blow past it & put forth something that hasnt been discussed yet here & is rarely/never discussed even in the real world..

About male child rape..a male child being raped by a man is far too obvious & understandable since the general population can understand how it happens, the male child is clearly a victim here, even women sometimes sexually abuse children though its rare but still understandable bcoz the male child is clearly a victim here ..though people are familiar with this concept of male child sexual abuse, there is something that is never discussed bcoz most people simply donot understand it..i dont know how to explain this phenomenon which i am about to explain but i ll try..

Some male children are physically capable of ...errr.. producing physiological reactions which most males are able to achieve only post puberty .a.k.a. 'an erection'.. even most men donot understand it bcoz most men never experience it , for most men erection begins to occur around puberty time , so they simply cannot relate to this problem..there are young boys who are physically aroused even at a young age..though they do not understand anything about sex , their bodily reactions makes them restless & curious..and these boys are most likely to experiment at a very very young age & this makes them more susceptible to child sexual abuse..the child will actively seek sexual activities & will jump at any opportunity provided..so when these boys grow up ,they think they werent abused since it was consensual without realizing that they werent at an age to give consent to such an activity..someone mentioned "Chris Brown having lost his virginity at 8" & i think he might fall into a similar category..i wish there was a scientific term to describe this phenomenon..if anyone knows anything about any such term which could explain this phenomenon, please do post it..i feel that it is necessary to understand & know this phenomenon to help these male children who could end up being victims of child sexual abuse or worse , they could end up being a rapist at a very young age without knowing what they are doing..so i think this is one problem that deserves attention..

This I did not know..young boys do experience orgasms & sometimes even multiple orgasms..since those orgasms are dry orgasms..but boys after puberty quickly loose this ability of multiple dry orgasms since they begin to ejaculate after that..post puberty I believe multiple orgasms is strictly reserved for girls..

So then we have heard a lot about teen sex education , may be child sex education too is required to shield them from getting into unwanted situation.. from what I know, child sexuality is almost never discussed..may be this issue too deserves people's attention..bcoz children are looked up as non-sexual entities..& may be that is not the truth..even children especially young boys capable of erection do actively seek out sexual activities & their curiosities too needs to be properly addressed & pacified..