Are you UNHAPPY with your LIFE?!! - Page 2

Originally posted by: Summer3

Oh sis Waheguru will look after you.

of course I am, at the end of the day no one is perfect. But we shouldn't complain we should be happy for what we have instead of children dying everyday in Africa, Palestine, killing in Pakistan, India e.t.c. Just be happy for what you got instead of complaining! they are million of people out there who are suffering and wish to be like us! 😊

This is what I understand in this area. There is nothing wrong with me to tell that I am unhappy with my life. When I accept myself and be more gentle and understanding on myself, it always helps me. God has definitely promised to change the life to be better for all of us. (How it happens is a broad topic. But the simple point I can say is while I am telling I am unhappy with my life, I also have to accept that I will take the responsibility for changing my life to be better. And that is of course with the help of God. We all know God helps those who help themselves.) And when I am accepting my feelings with gentleness, tenderness and understanding I will be gentle, tender, understanding and loving also to those people who tell they are unhappy and based on what I know I could help them also.

my life sucks

As long as we attach our happines to external things or others we cannot find true happiness.

At this point of time, I m extremely unhappy. I believe this is worst phase of my life. I am not satisfied with my job , health or personal life . I had breakup recently and I am fighting hard to deal with it. At some points I feel there is nothing interesting in this life . But it is also true that at other point I feel , there is hope and there is lot for me to achieve yet.I have to achieve all my goals...i haven't even achieved 40% of what I dreamt off. Biggest Problem is I set high goals and live in fantasy world..where i keep on dreaming..n put less effort to achieve them. Then I get disappointed but next moment I get motivated n start working on my goals.Again I get sad when i don't see quick results and I give up. There is this inconsistency in everything I do which I believe is main cause of not achieving what I want and that leads to unhappy state.
Moreover I am emotional fool too. I give 200% to relationships contrary to what people around me do. I expect them to do show same amount of passion as I do which they can't because they are not made like that n they can't be me bz they are what they are. I know that very well n I need to stop expecting from people and rather change myself first or kick them out of my life. Yes I do feel that Life is a b****** but what can I or anybody do ...we have to deal with it and move on. Its easy to do say but at least the thought motivates you to learn and improve current situation