Debater of the week #8:McNinja - Page 31

Originally posted by: BirdieNumNum

hey, do you think people should be sued for not looking like how they claim to be?😆 Take you for example. You look like a Mehak, but you certainly don't look at all like a McNinja. Not good, but very good.😆

Originally posted by: ChameliKaTel.

Hola Mee-haak. 😳

I just dedicated my first post to you, so what's my consolation prize? 😆

Bbbaaack laters.

Originally posted by: CestMoi

Also, I just got accused of being part of your gang or so it seems. So please welcome me aboard, where should I sign in huh 😆

Originally posted by: McNinja

LOL...well I've always wanted to be part of crips or bloods, so I guess this is the next best thing?

Don't be too bothered by people assuming you're one of my gang recruits. People seem to think speaking out against an unprovoked, low-blow of a comment means you are out for blood, or carrying out a vendetta over past issues. If only these people mattered this much. And if only they could see how they too are behaving just the same, i guess mob mentality is the word? But as they say, common sense ain't all that common 😆

But yeah, welcome aboard I guess. Though you'll be disappointed, there is no hard crime here. Just people who don't put up with nonsense 😆

Originally posted by: CestMoi

Hi Ninja,
I was a silent member and didn't get a chance to ask you any questions because of time constraint. But I loved reading your replies here. I have to say yours was one of the most rocking MOTW I had read on this forum 😎

1-One question from me: Why are people so thick skinned that they can't even penetrate through the barrier to see their own flaws 😆

2-One more, one more: Why do people cry foul. What would happen if they are in the same situation as that boy who for real cried when the wolves for real attacked. Do you feel these people might suffer the same consequences as the boy ?

Originally posted by: McNinja

😆 Yeah you're right, but why can't I redefine what a McNinja can look like? I mean, can't I be a very Mehak-like Mcninja?

But I never thought of it that way, maybe that's why some people have been upset with me...hung-up on my pics and how I look, for some inexplicable reason 😆

Originally posted by: McNinja

Wish you could have joined the party then. People were pretty entertaining and fun, took it all in stride. But looks like we can make up for lost time and raise a glass or two 😆

Ok your questions:

1- I think such people are either delusional or just stubborn. Delusional enough to actually justify themselves as the holy grail of all things righteous, or stubborn enough to see their flaws yet carry on justifying their actions. One needs to have thick skin to deal with such people. You can try to use logic and reason with them, but they are better off left alone in their bubble.

2- To me, they just have a obsessive neediness to be seen as the victim and garner attention, even if they are in the wrong. They don't help themselves in any way with the incessant cries of saboteur, considering people catch onto patterns of behavior. Usually when you are right in any given situation, you don't need to keep harping about the same points trying to show others you are right.

I can give you a personal example here. I found myself personally attacked in the past by some people(s) and offered by own rebuttal. And I actually had several people I had never interacted with on IF/DM send me PMs...and say that they agreed with me calling out the nonsense sent my way but that the people I'm dealing with are a lost cause and will never see their own fault, as its a pattern, so to not waste my breath. So when you're right, it ain't hard for others to see it...and when you're wrong, no amount of crying foul will change that 😆