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-Aarya- thumbnail
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Posted: 12 years ago
#11


RTH, you have hit the jackpot :)
Aur ek pati ke saat ek sautan bhi free aati hai 😆

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Posted: 12 years ago
#12

Originally posted by: -Aarya-

RTH, you have hit the jackpot :)
Aur ek pati ke saat ek sautan bhi free aati hai 😆

Complainant: Patni, Bahu - A woman
Defendant: Mother, Saas - A woman
Third party: Sautan - A woman
Possible party not yet involved: Sister, Dadi maa, naukrani - A woman
Interestingly no one said ek "sasur" bhi free milta hai.

Thanks to both of you for proving my underlying point. lol. There are lots of inter-gender and intra-gender possibilities however the famous ones are intra-female gender. Even if I take the point that sasur and damad dont live but then what about bahi-sasur issues? bahu-devar issues?

Please concede on this point and raise a white flag.
Edited by King-Anu - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#13

Originally posted by: King-Anu

Complainant: Patni, Bahu - A woman
Defendant: Mother, Saas - A woman
Third party: Sautan - A woman
Possible party not yet involved: Sister, Dadi maa, naukrani - A woman
Interestingly no one said ek "sasur" bhi free milta hai.

Thanks to both of you for proving my underlying point. lol. There are lots of inter-gender and intra-gender possibilities however the famous ones are intra-female gender. Even if I take the point that sasur and damad dont live but then what about bahi-sasur issues? bahu-devar issues?

Please concede on this point and raise a white flag.

Not time for the white flag yet, KAL ! 😛
Defending the lack of effective initiatives - ---by son or husband---a man
Cause for complaint-l-----ack of balancing act between wife and in laws by- --- the man
Creator of third party- ---(cant have a soutan without ) ----- a man
possible party not yet involved - --police, lawyers, judge, neighbours and bah blah ---mostly men
OP of the thread ----a man !
bahu sasur, and bahu devar issues wouldnt be as interesting as they wouldnt be evenly matched in a wordy duel 😆
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Posted: 12 years ago
#14

Originally posted by: return_to_hades



Why women's rights and not men's rights?
Girls can wear jeans and shirts. Why can't boys wear skirts and makeup?
Girls are making strides in the work place. Why can't men be nannies or house husbands?
You should start mens lib, so that men can dress like a woman and do a woman's job without being harassed.



Why not go ahead and lead this world?
Why did you start this thread instead of going ahead and leading the world?


😆 😆 Actually some have been fighting for those rights !
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Posted: 12 years ago
#15

Originally posted by: King-Anu

Complainant: Patni, Bahu - A woman
Defendant: Mother, Saas - A woman
Third party: Sautan - A woman
Possible party not yet involved: Sister, Dadi maa, naukrani - A woman
Interestingly no one said ek "sasur" bhi free milta hai.

Thanks to both of you for proving my underlying point. lol. There are lots of inter-gender and intra-gender possibilities however the famous ones are intra-female gender. Even if I take the point that sasur and damad dont live but then what about bahi-sasur issues? bahu-devar issues?

Please concede on this point and raise a white flag.



Criminal = Men 😆
Judge = Me 😉
Place = Notorious Criminal Court 😡
Charges = Womanize, Dishonesty, Insecurity, Laziness, Selfishness, Dishonesty, Cockiness
Sentencing = Life in Women Prison and be Tortured by Women 😆

And no bail 😆




Edited by -Aarya- - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#16

Originally posted by: _Angie_

Not time for the white flag yet, KAL ! 😛
Defending the lack of effective initiatives - ---by son or husband---a man
Cause for complaint-l-----ack of balancing act between wife and in laws by- --- the man
Creator of third party- ---(cant have a soutan without ) ----- a man
possible party not yet involved - --police, lawyers, judge, neighbours and bah blah ---mostly men
OP of the thread ----a man !
bahu sasur, and bahu devar issues wouldnt be as interesting as they wouldnt be evenly matched in a wordy duel 😆

Thanks for proving another of my observations right i.e. women tend to flock together in gender related topics and get into gender arguments instead of analyzing rationally.
See I made an observation. You girls passed few comments. Those comments in turn made my observation stronger as you yourself mentioned women (saas, sautan etc) as problems and not men (sasur etc). It has nothing to do with what men do as that is not the topic here and yet you involved them. Similarly the fact that OP is a man or police etc made of men is not an answer either.
Point is above post is not related, not a response, irrelevant, and therefore misplaced. If anything you have conceeded on another point. On the other hand is me who has agreed on many of the arguments presented by you girls. The basis of my decision is logic.
Thanks

Originally posted by: -Aarya-

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Criminal = Men 😆
Judge = Me 😉
Place = Notorious Criminal Court 😡
Charges = Womanize, Dishonesty, Insecurity, Laziness, Selfishness, Dishonesty, Cockiness
Sentencing = Life in Women Prison and be Tortured by Women 😆

And no bail 😆



Post = irrelevant
lol
Please keep in mind that discussing and commenting on observations and the fact that a man is making those observations does not make me gender bias. I am open to logic and have already agreed with few answers for example I agree there is no trend when it comes to women posting on topic about men. That was not a proper observation. Hope people will get the point here. lol
Edited by King-Anu - 12 years ago
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Posted: 12 years ago
#17
^^

Hey relax! Theres a difference between a serious and a lighthearted discussion. 😛 On a serious note, the only problem would be ones own mindset. Once a person can overcome that, there remains no problem that is too big to sort out. Any situation no matter how bad it seems can be tackled rationally and made less destructive than it could well turn out to be. Some disasters can be anticipated and prevented, those that cannot could be dealt with by mitigating its consequences. If I need to add , it isn't a man's prerogative to solve problems just as it isn't a woman's to create one, though she can be quite good at that too. 😆 Regardless of gender the issues one focuses on would depend on the relevance as perceived by an individual.

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Posted: 12 years ago
#18

Originally posted by: King-Anu

Why do we see topics on men from women but not the other way around?

Most women are obsessed with men and their position in society, men are not.(expect exceptions on both sides)
Why do we see girls having issues with eachother and boys not?
Women get jealous with other women, men do as well but much less than women

Why saas bahu and not susar damad?
A woman can stand another woman in the scene especially when it comes to sharing their possessions(son/husband in this case..in Sasur/damad relationship either its total love or they cant see eye to eye.. male ego

Why do girls have avi/pictures/signatures of actors while boys dont care much about actresses?
mostly teen girls right? well I think they don't get much else to do than drooling.. boys are more outgoing with more freedom, if you keep them at home like girls they will watch more tv and movies as well,
(all the above is only in South Asian community context)
Why do girls dont vote for fellow girls in reality tv shows while boys dont care?
again watching too much TV
Why in a gender topic boys tend to be more positive while girls always see it as gender war?
insecurity and playing victim 😆

Why women's rights and not men's rights?
same as previous

Why this context of complaining?
no idea

Why not go ahead and lead this world?
already doing that...😊
1- All observations are based on average and do not hold true for all men or women.
2- Please write if you agree or disagree with the point. For example if you believe we tend to talk about women's rights more than men's right then state agree. You dont have to go into explanation.
3- Pick one issue and comment on it. Otherwise it will get long. lol
4- You can cover rest in a brief summary post (optional)
5- Please stick to format.

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Posted: 12 years ago
#19

Originally posted by: King-Anu

Why do we see topics on men from women but not the other way around?

hmm🤔
Why do we see girls having issues with eachother and boys not?
studies says women are judgemental best eg: according to a new survey, women say they feel more comfortable undressing in front of men than they do undressing in front of other women. They say that women are too judgmental, where, of course, men are just grateful...😆

Why saas bahu and not susar damad?
Cos they dont have time to hear things...


Why do girls have avi/pictures/signatures of actors while boys dont care much about actresses?
May be bcos of judgemental issuesss😛
Why do girls dont vote for fellow girls in reality tv shows while boys dont care?

No idea..
Why in a gender topic boys tend to be more positive while girls always see it as gender war?

there is two sides to every argument,and they don't wanna listen to y/ours...most cases avoid/ ignore some statements cos anything a man says after that is the beginning of a new argument.😉

Why women's rights and not men's rights?
Maninism😆


Why this context of complaining?
This guy next to me says my cigarette smoke is bothering him. I'm like: Well, it's killing me and I'm not bitching about it... 😆 😆 😛

Why not go ahead and lead this world?
😆Leading my world😃

1- All observations are based on average and do not hold true for all men or women.
2- Please write if you agree or disagree with the point. For example if you believe we tend to talk about women's rights more than men's right then state agree. You dont have to go into explanation.
3- Pick one issue and comment on it. Otherwise it will get long. lol
4- You can cover rest in a brief summary post (optional)
5- Please stick to format.



Forever-KA thumbnail
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Posted: 12 years ago
#20

Originally posted by: _Angie_

^^

Hey relax! Theres a difference between a serious and a lighthearted discussion. 😛 On a serious note, the only problem would be ones own mindset. Once a person can overcome that, there remains no problem that is too big to sort out. Any situation no matter how bad it seems can be tackled rationally and made less destructive than it could well turn out to be. Some disasters can be anticipated and prevented, those that cannot could be dealt with by mitigating its consequences. If I need to add , it isn't a man's prerogative to solve problems just as it isn't a woman's to create one, though she can be quite good at that too. 😆 Regardless of gender the issues one focuses on would depend on the relevance as perceived by an individual.

So you took that as a serious discussion? lol. I am relaxed dont worry.
Do I know you? lol. I have seen your posts before. Great to see you back. Wonderful, honest and courageous take.

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