Why?

Originally posted by: King-Anu

Why do we see topics on men from women but not the other way around?

Disagree- Not too long ago we had topics by men on women. You couldnt have already forgotten about those topics on Virginity and wife beating and the tenor in which it was being carried out !

Why do we see girls having issues with eachother and boys not?

Disagree- we had ballastic posts between guys too and that too not very long ago on DM itself. 😛

Why saas bahu and not susar damad?

Agree- because saas and bahu have to interact much more than sasur damaad

Why do girls have avi/pictures/signatures of actors while boys dont care much about actresses?

Disagree- I see many girls with girls avi or neutral avis

Why do girls dont vote for fellow girls in reality tv shows while boys dont care?

Unable to comment - I do nt have access to that kind of statistics

Why in a gender topic boys tend to be more positive while girls always see it as gender war?

Disagree- check a few threads and it will be clear 😆

Why women's rights and not men's rights?

Disagree- no point in arguing for rights that have been already secured 😛

Why this context of complaining?

Agree- some people love to whine or enjoy being in a victim mode 😆

Why not go ahead and lead this world?

Agree- sure, why not ! 😃

1- All observations are based on average and do not hold true for all men or women.

Disagree- some of it was based on less than average observation

2- Please write if you agree or disagree with the point. For example if you believe we tend to talk about women's rights more than men's right then state agree.

Disagree!! The agreement or disagreement was to the point being made . It was in a question form so it was disagreement with that question!

You dont have to go into explanation.

done !

3- Pick one issue and comment on it. Otherwise it will get long. lol

I think I ve managed to keep it short and sweet so answered all 😆

4- You can cover rest in a brief summary post (optional)

Done!

5- Please stick to format. Done! 😊

Originally posted by: King-Anu

Why do we see topics on men from women but not the other way around?

'coz men don't care enough about women to talk about them 😛 😛

Why do we see girls having issues with eachother and boys not?

I pointed out that I know of many men who have issues with other men and women..

Why saas bahu and not susar damad?

You have no idea 😆 I love how fathers never think their sons-in-law are good enough for their daughters.. it's fun to watch them pick on sons-in-law! 😆 😆 But fathers are adorable, they care about their daughters' happiness.. so they wouldn't want to say anything lest their daughters would be upset. On the other hand, mothers-in-law get away with picking on bahus 'coz their sons don't stand up for their wives 😡 😡

Why do girls have avi/pictures/signatures of actors while boys dont care much about actresses?

😲 😲 Boys don't care much about actresses? 🤣 Takes me back to my college days when all my friends used to drool over Elisha Cuthbert ..

Why do girls dont vote for fellow girls in reality tv shows while boys dont care?

I don't vote for anyone (men and women) in reality shows.. though I might for Sanaya Irani if she comes on Jhalak Dikhla Ja.. and I know about at least 50 other girls who love her and will vote for her!

Why in a gender topic boys tend to be more positive while girls always see it as gender war?

There is no war, King A .. 'coz women always win.. it's men who think its a war.. 'coz they cannot accept defeat and they continue to fight 😆 😆

Why women's rights and not men's rights?

That is a bigger issue.. its the chicken-egg problem actually..

Women need equality.. for that.. women are given privileges, so that they have an opportunity to strive for equality.. but then men think women are given special treatment.. and hence they treat women differently.. which is going against the problem of striving for equality!

Why is it that issues about children or marriage are brought up, immediately people talk about mothers or wives .. is managing a family a sole responsibility of a woman? A father and husband should have equal responsibility.

Feminism started right.. it just got lost somewhere along the way. People are putting a lot of thought into these issues now.. there are a lot of discussions on what can be done.. but you are right, people need to understand that in order to get women their rights, they should not ignore men's rights!

But then if men's rights should be considered in fields that are associated with women (cooking for example like you said earlier), then women's rights should be considered too in fields like science and engineering.. not sure when we will achieve this.. but we are getting there 'coz now there are women (even though few) everywhere.. even in space and on the battle field ..!

Why this context of complaining?

'coz bitching is fun .. 😆 😆

Why not go ahead and lead this world?

1- All observations are based on average and do not hold true for all men or women.

2- Please write if you agree or disagree with the point. For example if you believe we tend to talk about women's rights more than men's right then state agree. You dont have to go into explanation.

3- Pick one issue and comment on it. Otherwise it will get long. lol

4- You can cover rest in a brief summary post (optional)

5- Please stick to format.

You should have put this at the top.. now I am too lazy to read my post and change it 😆 Sorry!

Originally posted by: King-Anu

I mean care enough to make avis. signatures or use or drool.

I don't do/make any of those of any male actors.. 😆

Thats not my observation. It is girls/women that give the impression as if they want to win at all cost. Men on the other hand are cool and tend to not take such issues seriously.

Again.. I think its mainly 'coz men don't think its important to talk about stuff. On the other hand women think a lot more about certain issues than they should. Women talk about these issues 'coz they care enough to get to the bottom of the issue.. and of course like you pointed out there is no use talking to guys about it! 🤔

To me it is not about men or women. I dont like a situation where any group or in this case a gender is discriminated and less favored. That hurts me because I am an animal who hunts fair and square. lol. Losing in life fair and square is much better than winning in an unfair setup. So please go ahead and lead this world. What are you girls waiting for? I am looking forward to that.

Originally posted by: King-Anu

Why do we see topics on men from women but not the other way around?

It is surprising to me as well, cause as per IF Nov-12 stats, there are more men on this site vs women and yet they fail to raise any topic on women, may be men just don't find women interesting enough 😆
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Why do we see girls having issues with each other and boys not?
Haha, and I think boys flight more with each other then girls!

Why saas bahu and not susar damad?
Once Sasur and Damad start living with each other, you will see more drama than expected!

Why do girls have avi/pictures/signatures of actors while boys dont care much about actresses?
LOL, tell me one man who doesn't care about a hot actress 😆 and I think men are just too sneaky when it comes to drooling in public.

Why do girls dont vote for fellow girls in reality tv shows while boys dont care?
I am not familiar with statics on this to quote otherwise.

Why in a gender topic boys tend to be more positive while girls always see it as gender war?
I need an example to quote on this question.

Why women's rights and not men's rights?
LOL, what more rights do men need, do they want right to pee in public 😆

Why this context of complaining?
Meaning?

Why not go ahead and lead this world?
Aren't we already leading the world 😆

1- All observations are based on average and do not hold true for all men or women.

2- Please write if you agree or disagree with the point. For example if you believe we tend to talk about women's rights more than men's right then state agree. You dont have to go into explanation.

3- Pick one issue and comment on it. Otherwise it will get long. lol

4- You can cover rest in a brief summary post (optional)

5- Please stick to format.

Originally posted by: King-Anu

Why do we see topics on men from women but not the other way around?

Boys do not pertain to talking about how difficult girls have made their lives. Their egos never allow em, I believe.

Why do we see girls having issues with eachother and boys not?

Because boy issues don't normally last long enough and when they do, their rivalry reaches the media. 🐷

Why saas bahu and not susar damad?

Because both women and men are happy that way. 🤔 You tell me, do you want to watch a susar daamaad drama?

Why do girls have avi/pictures/signatures of actors while boys dont care much about actresses?

India forums is a website where mostly everybody is female and straight. The ages are ranging but the hormones are largely raging. We don't have many boys here. The ones who come to discuss dramas and movies do have signatures of actresses. The ones who dun, well, why would they have? 😆

Why do girls dont vote for fellow girls in reality tv shows while boys dont care?

I do not know, I do not vote. 😳

Why in a gender topic boys tend to be more positive while girls always see it as gender war?

It's a topic that tends to make females highly vulnerable. They begin to get protective of their gender and support one and other, often by trying to bring the men down verbally, like by debating.

Why women's rights and not men's rights?

I admit that women's rights have such loopholes that can at times cause trouble to men. But at least for now, there's a greater need for them to have rights than men.

Why this context of complaining?

Come again? 🤔

Why not go ahead and lead this world?

How does one go about leading the world, exactly? 😳

Originally posted by: boreddamsel

Well its not that we don't want to 😆.. it's tough!

You might be fair .. but not every man is that way!

Why blame men.. even women treat women unfairly.. so not sure when this will be fixed.

But of course what women should do is fight for what they deserve! 😆 And if people call you bossy and arrogant.. Ctrl Alt Ignore! 😆 😆

Originally posted by: return_to_hades

thanks.

Originally posted by: King-Anu

Why do we see topics on men from women but not the other way around?

I don't agree. I don't see this trend.

Why do we see girls having issues with eachother and boys not?

I think there is a mindset of proving I am the best among many. Therefore when someone else is there girls start doing competition to prove themselves and hence issues. Boys on the other hand continue to think they are the best. lol

Why saas bahu and not susar damad?

Well answered by many. Check their replies.

Why do girls have avi/pictures/signatures of actors while boys dont care much about actresses?

More expressive and committed towards their likes.

Why do girls dont vote for fellow girls in reality tv shows while boys dont care?

Combination of both Innocence and competition mindset.

Why in a gender topic boys tend to be more positive while girls always see it as gender war?

More eager sure. Maybe rebel against the status quo

Why women's rights and not men's rights?

Othere have covered it already.

Why this context of complaining?

I now disagree

Why not go ahead and lead this world?

They are moving towards that.