Trust - Page 2

Originally posted by: -Aarya-

I don't trust people in real life, how the hell do you expect me to trust people online 😆

0.

Originally posted by: King-Anu

Please answer in format that I have requested and address all questions. lol

What is the confidence measure around 0?

-10, 0, 10

0, 0, 0

Thanks. Will check later,

Originally posted by: lonely0planet

I am totally opposite.. on sunday I got friendly with this lady with two kids(1 baby and 1 kid) and later she asked me to watch over her baby while she went around with her older one.. I spent half an hour baby sitting for a total stranger who barely spoke English 😆

another stranger tonight was this old guy from US trying to convince me Detroit is the best place on planet earth and I should visit him😆

it just takes few smiles I guess...😊

Originally posted by: King-Anu

Appreciate your input. However I am expecting a response to each question. The above statements can go under question 5.

Originally posted by: Prometeus

^Okie😃

Originally posted by: King-Anu

1) On average, how much do you trust online community. Since there are numerous such communities I am asking about non-social sites such as forums like India-Forums

Varies... ill let you pick a random number between 0 and 100. There are people on IF, who know absolutely everything about me.. including stuff my own family and real friends don't know.. 😛 .. and there are at least a few I hope who know nothing!

2) What are the factors that increase or decrease your trust.

Factors have been wrong in real life with people who I was really close to .. so I would say there are no factors!

As to those people who know everything about me on IF .. well I don't remember how I became so close to them.. well we just clicked (no pun intended) 😛

3) Give us an example of something that might shake the trust of those who have trusted you on that particular matter. Point? Give us some gossips. lol.

Someone told me I am awesome ... 😳 Oh wait, that was me...

4) Has someone shaken your trust (in same context i.e. forums). No need to name names.

No.

5) Concluding remarks on how should we see online trust.

Originally posted by: boreddamsel

Let's start by defining a trust model .. I am assuming you mean that when you tell someone something about you, you don't expect them to

1 share that information with someone else

2 use that information to blackmail you

3 use that information to find you and stalk you .. and harm you?

yes thats part of it.

Is that all of it .. or did I miss something?

if some has told u the truth. for eg who knows? maybe I am Queen Anu. lol.

With regards to

1, I am with Aarya.. I don't even trust myself.. That said, I am pretty good at keeping secrets about others.. it's just stuff about myself that I can go on and on about! 😊

2 .. no use.. 'coz I have no money .. sorry! 😆

3 .. it's pretty easy to find me on the web if you want to

well they say my heart is like a black hole. what goes in there never comes out. i think those who know me here will agree. lol.

Don't share anything you don't mind being disclosed to the public.

Originally posted by: King-Anu

if some has told u the truth. for eg who knows? maybe I am Queen Anu. lol.

I don't see what someone would gain by lying to me on an online forum. But sure, whatever makes them happy!

well they say my heart is like a black hole. what goes in there never comes out. i think those who know me here will agree. lol.

Aww.. 😳

But how can trust them and be so sure that they know you!

time is a good test. with time the decision is mostly right.

Not always!

people who i have been close to have trusted me and have shared info with me as well. in return i have not. i feel bad. really really bad. they must be thinking i dont trust them. its not like that. i respect and trust them. one reason is i am not that communicative and shy type. more important reason is i run away from personal interactions. therefore i have build this wall. its not about trust in my case, i can never disrespect freinds by not trusting them.