What makes LOVE unconditional? - Page 4

Originally posted by: I_miss_Snakewa

Haha.😆😆 Now I can't argue with that.😛 It is not in our hands who we fall in love with, so this is a very tricky problem. But we can ensure that we learn from our mistakes, and never fall for the same type of person again.😃

Yes, yes, I am getting there. Haven't I made enough mistakes, or are there more qualities that you should avoid in a man, that I have yet not encountered?

You see that is where the whole argument loses momentum. Because that IS the very idea of unconditional love. Giving love, without even expecting to get it back! If the person whom you love unconditionally loves you back, then it's great! Yes, for love to last you need to understand your partners needs and give it to them. But if what you share is unconditional love, then you don't even notice that you are reciprocating the love you got from them! But if your partner doesn't reciprocate, then you are probably better off without them!😆 I know I said unconditional love is giving without expecting love in return. But let's face it, no one would put up with someone who doesn't contribute in a relationship.😛 So your idea of a relationship is not screwed up! It kind of sounds like my idea of a relationship.😃

😊 That was just beautiful, dear.. just beautiful! 👏

I hope you do not settle for anything less, cause you deserve the best and you deserve to be loved unconditionally!😳 That being said, I do hope you do not waste your entire life in searching for "The One".😛

Hmm.. how can you waste your life if you are searching for the one.. I mean how can I settle for someone who doesn't make me happy? That's all I ask.. and I don't ask for a lot.. just love .. 😭

YES, as a matter of fact I did.😳 And yes, it is indeed your partner's responsibility to make sure you don't get bored of them! Otherwise, take it as a hint that they are not the right person for you!😛

You slimy, yet adorable, snakewa you 😆

Me too!😛 I hope you do find a way to devise the algorithm that quantifies love soon.😉 It will solve a lot of problems, and bring piece to mankind.😛😆

Originally posted by: boreddamsel

and finally Ninja makes an appearance! 🤔

Hey you 🤗

Hey I am all for compatibility, but then that means there has to be someone else in this world who is as awesome as I am.. hmm.. that's going to be hard to find 😆

Romanticized love.. pfffttt. 😡 I just go by what I feel.. that's my standard! If it makes me happy, then it has to be right! If it gives me stress, then why do I need it.. I have enough things in my life to give me stress! 🤔 except a Ninja who lights up my day 🤗 Ok, ok, don't hit the roof.. my love for you is fleeting too.. buhahahaha.. 😆

Originally posted by: GayuArnav

LOL. Mehak You are my first guru for lyfe 🤣

Oh god! I love this. Two people fighting over me 😎

Im super Awesome.

Originally posted by: McNinja

Right, why am I 4 pages late again. Wait, I know...don't answer that. 😆

Yeah yeah, I know you're the president of my fan club...there's nothing fleeting about it 😳

But yeah, look for someone who treats your laughter and well being as priorities but I really wish people would move away from this concept of love we've been sold. How can love be unconditional, when life itself runs on conditions.

Originally posted by: McNinja

Chal ve, I don't fight over anyone...I'm the one fought over 🤣

Don't fatter yourself. I just like being given credit for my work.

Originally posted by: McNinja

Chal ve, I don't fight over anyone...I'm the one fought over 🤣

Don't fatter yourself. I just like being given credit for my work.

Originally posted by: -Kainat-

OH GOSH 😲 LOVE AND UNCONDITIONAL?
I don't believe in love at first sight << it sounds filmy🥱
And so is,with unconditional love! Asking for unconditional love is like asking for stars.And that can happen only in one's imagination!
Only parents know,how to love their kids unconditionally!
Otherwise if one day a man will come to me and say me that he loves me unconditionally,i will do nothing but laugh!

Originally posted by: McNinja

Why is Arti getting the credit for guiding Gayu. I was there showing her the way long before any of you cradle snatchers 😡

Anyway, more than love...a mutual respect, understanding, and sense of responsibility to each other should be there. To me, this is compatability and I don't think love is a requirement to be good for each other. I still maintain look for things that can grow into love, not love itself.

Romanticized love is what's been causing so much trouble to all you cynics. 😆 That love is fleeting, and hard to maintain. Better off not using it as a standard for love.