Marriage is a necessity? - Page 3

Everything depends on the man you marry.Like it or lump it he is capable of making your life heaven or a living misery.

Originally posted by: DuttaSweetheart

Everything depends on the man you marry.Like it or lump it he is capable of making your life heaven or a living misery.

For me marriage is the licence to physical love & children.I cannot be in a relationship with a man which is not signed & sealed.And I absolutely do not want my children to suffer because of any selfish decision on my part.But if you are not interested in both only a dork would want to spent the rest of her life in captivity.😆

That would be the same for women as well. Women too can make life hell or heaven for their spouses.

Marriage though is a two way street. It depends on what both people bring to the table, what both are willing to give and take. Compatibility is important. Someone who makes you miserable will probably make another person jump for joy. That is why those who chose marriage shouldn't just do it because everyone else does it or because parents want it – but marry only when they are ready and give due consideration to issues like compatibility and friendship along with physical attraction.

Originally posted by: return_to_hades

That would be the same for women as well. Women too can make life hell or heaven for their spouses.

Originally posted by: DuttaSweetheart

True.But being a girl I hardly give any thought to folks on the other side of the fence.😳

Originally posted by: LovesLowCulture

Life is a chaotic mess to me, and marriage and monogamy seem to offer some sense of stability. Although, I don't know if my feelings are the result of something innate or years of socialization.

Originally posted by: LovesLowCulture

Life is a chaotic mess to me, and marriage and monogamy seem to offer some sense of stability. Although, I don't know if my feelings are the result of something innate or years of socialization.

Originally posted by: -Iconoclast-

I don't know. I think life's simpler when you've the reign. I believe in monogamy too till the relationship lasts. :)

Originally posted by: DuttaSweetheart

Brilliant!👏 Hit it on the head, you did.👍🏼 Stability is definitelya plus point in monogamy because I have seen women drift from one man to another & in the process lose their self worth & contentment.

Originally posted by: LovesLowCulture

I don't do so well on my own.

I am in favor of serial monogamy. I realize it's too myopic of me to think I can spend my life with one person. I might change, circumstances may change.

Luckily, marriage, the contract as recognized by my country's laws, rewards people like me.

As for marriage, the desi social institution, I don't think there's a lot of room there for serial monogamists. Unless, you're a straight man.