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Posted: 12 years ago
#21

Originally posted by: .Baazigar.

If we expect criminal have mercy before commiting henious crime is just like expecting murderer will show some kindness while murder. Here one is killing the honour of woman. Criminal are more brutal as they expect ulitimately no one will catch them. In most cases they kill the victim if they feel they will be caught or the victim will report the case. Statistics say nearly 25000 rape cases reported in india every year and this figure is as low as 10% of total cases bcoz people dont file cases due to social stigma and family pressure which is may not be false in indian socity. Out of that 26% were only convicted by court. In my view crime against woman never a mainstream issue for lawmakers , in election, in the society. Thats why woman have to demand for law, safety and better society. They have to snatch the right to move freely in public space not like in fear to move even at 9 pm. These statistics are there every year , this brave heart girl of delhi force everyone to think and raise question even in this forum we r discussing openly about this.

This is the second time I say this, just because it is accepted generally while it shouldn't. Why do women have to snatch their right? Why can't society/politics/people. don't just give the right? What makes it so hard for them to accept that women are just as human as them and deserve to have rights? Is it that much of a big deal. This is something that should be normal. EVeryone having rights, and seen as equals.
The thinking of people need to change. It people are indoctrinated. They just do what other people tell and share the same opinion without thinking or doubting it.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#22

Originally posted by: MrToolConfuser


don't call them men! Those are the animals who can never be or act like human. How could anyone think of this types of act!!!

The fact is my friend. That though it seems like an act of animals, it isn't they are just as human as we are. And I am ashamed that I belong to the same category as they do. Human Beings. It is extremely sad.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#23

Originally posted by: MrToolConfuser

About reducing crimes or caughting criminals there should invent new types of ideology. But, most of cases criminals gets a easy get away from jail and that's what made them to feel they'll be out. There needs to be harsh punishment for them, punish them as harsh as that they ask for their own death!!!

Indeed. People don't think about what they do. Maybe/Probably a harsher punishment would scare them of thinking about raping or other crimes. I am actually against the death penalthy. I wish those guys get castrated and their names get published so the people of the country who are able to see this is wrong and end them. I think that would be the best punishment. Those guys deserve no other.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#24

Originally posted by: Savage

I'm not sure if I can tell you anything about a rapist's mindset. But for what it's worth, they cannot be deemed unintelligent. Their plans of action are always fearless and a lot of times, well executed. They dun have a fear in the world, because


a) Yes, I may not understand their psychology but I know it is touched
b) They dun have fear of punishment because eh, our government acts a little too severely for anyone's good on rape cases.

That's about their heads, I think. We cannot tell for sure. It is a man's way of expressing his mental imbalance, lack of respect toward the female kind and exhibiting their sexual dissatisfaction. 🤓

And yes, because they are so severely troubled in their head, they cannot be moral. They are far from it, even after the act is committed.

I think they are unintelligent.
It is a sympton of not being educated enough to see people as equals. It also shows you can't think and have opinions on your own. And you can't recongize right or wrong. I don't think that people that can do that are able to do something cruel like that.
Indeed. Imbalance and unintelligence, I think that makes someone a perfect rapist.
But that is just sick! Though I do agree with. I think you have told very well about their mindset.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#25

Originally posted by: Skepblun

Females are mostly viewed as sex objects and subservient beings only. Males are brought up to believe they are more powerful and superior in all respects. They're encouraged to be sex-crazed and dominating. Leering at females, ogling, cheap flirtation, molestation, teasing and forced sex are all considered sign of masculinity.

Even online, males tend to behave in worst ways with females, calling them dirty names or linking themselves to females.

South Asians especially believe a female is always available. If she's outside home, she's available even if she's out for a walk or going to work. If she's alone at home or is close/trusting enough then also she's "available" and can be taken advantage of.

Men believe they can have "fun" and get away by throwing away the girl. A news report claimed that Delhi Gang rape accused had said they didn't know "just a rape" would get them in this much trouble.

Actually people also feel burden of rape lies on females because nothing happens to a man but in a woman's case it becomes evident she's been raped (can tell she's not a virgin, might become pregnant).

Women are viewed as property who can be controlled, protected, stolen. They are never seen as individuals with a mind of their own. No wonder women get beaten up, raped or acid is thrown on their faces to "teach" them a lesson or put them in "their place".

Everybody believes women have certain "limits". Even kids keep dictating to a female what she should do or not do. Even if a female is online, talking freely to everyone or is online late at night or something she's harassed and taken as a loose character woman who's "available" for cheap flirtation.

Crimes against women are mostly hushed up because women themselves feel a sense of shame, are made to hold themselves responsible for attracting such treatment. The "shame" is for the female. Not for the male who perpetrated crime.

Nobody ever says why men raped. It's said men are bound to rape (men will be men). It's asked why a woman wore what she wore, went out or couldn't be careful even within the house. Mostly women are accused of provoking or seducing men or putting themselves in danger.

Comments of politicians, scientists and some reporters in Indian media have amply shown what people's mentality is with regards to women. Even in case of laws they are concerned about women "misusing" laws rather than being stricter on men who do such acts.

Violating a woman is considered okay, "no big deal" and a sign of masculinity, show of power and teaching "lesson" (read putting her in her inferior place) here.

I couldn't have agreed more. I wish I didn't have to agree. I wish this world wasn't destructed by the people themselfs. Yet it is. This is the moment where I think whether I would be better the Mayas were right about 2012, december.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#26
@BrunoMars

You asked why can't it change or why people think the way they do. It's because woman was considered inferior from day 1. In pre-historic ages they were no different from the cattle in the man's house. Talks of women's rights or treating women as individuals have emerged quite late. And call for women's equality started mainly around 1970s. There is ideal talk but nothing happens this way in real life.

The patriarchal and cave-man kind of mindset still persists.

Women themselves have low view of their own kind. The first person to make a female feel insecure and inferior about being a female is another female herself. Many females also say women attract eve-teasers or rape or that women should put up with whatever that happens since it's a man's world. Several women also feel jealous if they see another woman getting any rights. A small example is the forum of the popular show Balika Vadhu, wherein female members are dissing the male lead for being a hen-pecked husband just because he's an understanding man and is going out of his way to make his wife overcome her past trauma. And it's females themselves who're trashing the female lead for refusing to have sex with her husband.

In case of Delhi gang rape also a woman scientist had commented that it was girl's fault for going out at that hour of the evening, going with a boyfriend and boarding that bus and that the girl wouldn't have been treated so brutally if she'd submitted to rapists instead of trying to fight them.

Women themselves don't support women or respect other women's rights. What can you expect to change?
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Posted: 12 years ago
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Originally posted by: BrunoMars

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Indeed. People don't think about what they do. Maybe/Probably a harsher punishment would scare them of thinking about raping or other crimes. I am actually against the death penalthy. I wish those guys get castrated and their names get published so the people of the country who are able to see this is wrong and end them. I think that would be the best punishment. Those guys deserve no other.

agree! getting death penalty they're not only gets free from punishment aswell life too, what will happen after death penalty ?
Some other will do this types thing and will say in mind "till crimes doesn't proves i am free, and if proves then i am free too from torcher"??
What about victims family? Who suffered from it? Wheres the justice!! Instead of making them die throwing death penalty, torcher them for lifetime and make their life like a living hell!!! Then this types of people will learn what exactly punishment is called...
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Posted: 12 years ago
#28
Education has little to do with rape. Several educated men have also indulged in this heinous act. Education or not, cave-man mindset always persists in the subconscious. It's the warped social conditioning at work!
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Posted: 12 years ago
#29
Some sick minded individuals should be punished severely for attempting rape. That will set an example. They are getting away scot free so it's no wonder these sick b*stards keep on doing it.
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Posted: 12 years ago
#30
I seriously wish to go inside a rapist's head for once.
How can someone rape?
There are other ways to satisfy physical hunger.
Why rape someone to satisfy your beastly needs?

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