Men should not desert their wives

Marriage is a commitment between two people. Both people have an equal responsibility to each other. Both people have the duty to stand by their spouse and never abandon them. Even in cases of divorce or separation, there are certain responsibilities on both sides. And whether one is western or Asian, Indian or American is irrelevant to the discussion. The commitment of marriage does not change based on race or ethnicity.

Originally posted by: King-Anu

Let me guess Summer. The above are more likely to be the ones that men are going to than men are leaving? lol.

Wives are not clothes that one can replace and get new ones. This is very mean of them. Very disturbing.

Originally posted by: Beyond_the_Veil

Why get into a serious long-term relationship (marriage or otherwise) if you are not willing to stay together and put together and remain committed? Does not mean you should keep the relationship going even if it does not work out - but at least make all the efforts and attempts to sort out the issues before taking such a drastic action. This goes for both genders.

A relationship isn't a game - think twice before committing yourself to someone, and think thrice before exiting it.

Originally posted by: Dostum

Everything should be decided prior to marriage.

If Mariah Carey (prior to the marriage/baby) appears to the husband, or if Hritik to the wife ... they can desert them. Otherwise not. How about that for an agreement?

@Summer: the second one is not a Bhartiya Nari in your pic. She is a Latino or some South EU girl. You are planning to desert somebody for a gora chamri... very bad man very very bad.

By the way, living abroad for years and them meeting up with a blonde chick with a nice heart and eager to know more about you is certainly going to make you rethink your ethics. If she is really sweet and all your Desi wife does is to call you and ask for that monthly salary, bills and her mayka, then it all gets in favor of that blondy. Don't you think so?

If people get options, only then they get tested. You cannot judge someone unless you're in their shoes buddy.

Originally posted by: return_to_hades

Marriage is a commitment between two people. Both people
have an equal responsibility to each other. Both people have the duty to stand
by their spouse and never abandon them. Even in cases of divorce or separation,
there are certain responsibilities on both sides. And whether one is western or
Asian, Indian or American is irrelevant to the discussion. The commitment of
marriage does not change based on race or ethnicity.