Men should not desert their wives - Page 2

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Originally posted by: Dostum

However is one gets a wife who has a problem with everything in society, is a self declared radical feminist, is too opinionated on every damn thing and wants to impose her way of thinking on everybody ... the best advice to the man is to RUN!

Originally posted by: UnsolvedMystery

If a man(husband) happened to be a douchebag, pervert or weirdo, wife herself should leave that man.

Originally posted by: Prometeus

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Ladies: if you argue with your man naked, you will win every single time.

Originally posted by: Summer3

How about the men ?😆

Originally posted by: Angel-likeDevil

I think everyone must be self-reliant(emotionally, and in every way)... One cannot expect people outside to behave righteously... so, I believe that if a man abandons his wife, the wife must accept it and move on. He doesnt deserve her love or concern or emotions or thoughts anyway.

SUMMER bhaiyyaa... Eid Mubarak 🤗

Originally posted by: Dostum

In the real world, so will that decent wife.

The man however, might not really suffer that much if he is educated and possesses financial resources 😳. REALITY.

Originally posted by: Dostum

People should marry with their opinion involved as well, and not just because their parents want it. This is the main issue here.

Had they really been interested in the girl, got to know each other freely and make a decision with the participation of their parents in that decision - things would be different.

Indian parents tend to reject any idea of their son or daughter getting married to a foreign partner, and for this reason their children try their best at the beginning to 'only' please them, and later fail to carry that on much longer and succumb to their emotions about a preferred partner of their choice. Men are seen to do this more due the the amount of expectation which they also end up suffering from their parents ... and Indian men go out more than our women.

Originally posted by: Dostum

Explain that to the heart ... you will have a tough time doing that.

We try to make people swallow our own perceptions about something. Giving them a right to make choices is then impeded and they make moves which are destructive.

This is called 'suppression' and in place of what is proper, we give them cheap alternatives which messes up their lives further.

I think the best policy is to work hard and marry when one finds the right partner. Marriage never impedes social or financial progress, the couple can come together at their legal maturity age and earn to make a decent living. Both can raise a family from scratch and learn to share as well as move through uneven times. I think family planning can be done as they would probably prefer that themselves.

However, to force people to do whatever others want is not right, they will rebel once at some point in their lives. Those times and their rebellion then can be disastrous for their lives and the lives of innocent others.

I've known people forced into unwanted marriages, both where I live and in India. I know a guy who I met, he came from India and said how he was married right after me got an opportunity to study in my country. It was done in a rush and he has no idea about the girl or anything, the parents would not allow him to go abroad without giving them a bahu.

He came here and later got involved with a local girl, now has a child with her. I didn't meet him recently, but i wonder whats going on. Its not uncommon in at all, and it seems its more commonly a desi problem. Something needs to change both ways, from the parents to their children.