Why Parents stay only with sons!!

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Khushi Ghai

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Posted: 13 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: .Shayari.

goli maarna hain iss culture ko😡 😆

Totally agreed. 😆

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366774

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Posted: 13 years ago

#12

Originally posted by: King-Anu
I think time has come for girls to take the next step. lol. You cannot talk about independence/equality and at the same time is still putting the main responsibility on husband.

They are more than welcome to take financial burden of husband, kids, their family and pay all the bills. They can take husband to shopping also. In return husband can stay home and watch sports, movies, TV serials and orgainze gossip sessions. Soon we will have sasur-damaad tv serials. Ek sasur bhi kabhi damaad tha types.

What if they see damaad ji buying balloons and ice creams for gals,fir kya hoga,kingy?😛

BTW,I heard desis quite like good looking,educated bachelor desi damaad's,you also FIT the criteria,kisi ne kuch kaha?😛😆

@Topic:

It'd be better if parents don't pay any mind to what people say,and there are few who don't even drink or eat in their daughter's house😕

Edited by pretty_kuri - 13 years ago

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Forever-KA

@Forever-KA

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Posted: 13 years ago

#13

Originally posted by: pretty_kuri

What if they see damaad ji buying balloons and ice creams for gals,fir kya hoga,kingy?😛

woh aake pehlu main aise bhaite, ke shaam rangeen ho gaye hai
zara zara si khili tabiyat, zara si ghamgeen ho gaye hai.

nice to see you. it depends who the damaad is and who the gals are. lol.

BTW,I heard desis quite like good looking,educated bachelor desi damaad's,you also FIT the criteria,kisi ne kuch kaha?😛😆

tere masoom sawaloon se pareshan hon main

lol. thats the problem miss.

please post more often. and always smile like that. tc

@Topic:
Umm..it's a social trend,actually.
It'd be better if parents don't pay any mind to what people say,and there are few who don't even drink or eat in their daughter's house😕

Edited by King-Anu - 13 years ago

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366774

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Posted: 13 years ago

#14

Originally posted by: King-Anu

woh aake pehlu main aise bhaite, ke shaam rangeen ho gaye hai
zara zara si khili tabiyat, zara si ghamgeen ho gaye hai.

Thank you,but why gamgeen?

nice to see you. it depends who the damaad is and who the gals are. lol.
Damaad is you,now who are the gals only you'll know😛

tere masoom sawaloon se pareshan hon main

lol. thats the problem miss.

please post more often. and always smile like that. tc

Okay,will try and what's the problem mere masoon sawaal ya desi families?😉😆
P.s check your PM:)

Edited by pretty_kuri - 13 years ago

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Forever-KA

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Posted: 13 years ago

#15

Originally posted by: pretty_kuri

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LOVE_DMG

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Posted: 13 years ago

#16

lol and most of them get kicked out of thier own homes.

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Freethinker112

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Posted: 13 years ago

#17

Typical Indian mindset, abla naari and all. Nobody believed that girls could do anything without the support of men. That's why. Let's see when does the mindset change.

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Ankithate

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Posted: 13 years ago

#18

More than the mindset , the culture is to be blamed.
Indian culture is hipocrytical in its own.
But ya have seen some parents staying with daughters too. But counting is very few. !!

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246851

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Posted: 13 years ago

#19

Its actually mindset and also at time sense of freedom that exists at a sons house apparantly, which is HOuse and daughter's house which is her house..

For example, until recently i had 3 grandparents, my mother's parents and my grandma on my dad's side. She lives with us, always has been. All the three are terribly strong people and freedom loving. My nana and nani they rarely stayed overnight. But then again we live considerably closer to the other house.

since 2010, failing health of my grandpa and also my grandma forced my ma to take care of her 3 children at the same time. So she has to shuttle between this house and that house. It was not easy as she was not getting any younger and had 3 major operations done to her. And no matter how many millions of time we would tell them to come stay here, they will not shut shop and come here and stay. The maximum they stayed was for 7 days. Nah who will worship the murats at house and so on issues. And my gramp always said, no way i ma staying all the time in my daughters house and been taken care of by my son in law. After he passed away, my grandma came and stayed with us for about a month after all the ceremonies were over, mostly coz of the companionship from my dadi maa. and then she promptly ran back to her house rather stay with daughter.

my bua literally begs my dadi to go stay with her for long periods of time. My dadi will not budge. she would stay here at our house, do puja, chatter with ma. Sometimes these things give rise to unpleasant situations like talks dadi favouring my father or financially. and even cousin rivalry about which one is more loved by the grandparents.

Financially none of the 3 oldies needed and need a dime from my dad to sustain, all had their respective jobs and enjoy pension now. But neither did my nana come and stay with us long term, nor does my naani, and my dadi will not live this house and stay with my bua for long terms.

And what do our modern papa and maa have to say in all it. Me and my sister are both working people who have their own comfortable independant life in two different cities, we are not even married. But they already have said they will never come and stay with us now permanently and will never ever do it once we get married. Because we will be paraya dhan.

To hell with modern education and bringing up your daughters, educating them as emancipated human beings without any discrimination for them being females.

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Lumos

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Posted: 13 years ago

#20

Hey..im a guy and honestly your topic brought a smile to my face. 😊😊 aww i so understand your plights but nothing can be done! These traditions are very logical and time immemorial !