Why Parents stay only with sons!!

pls want a valid reason for this..why do parents stay with only sons?but not with daughters!!

According to the traditions what happened before was a girl got married and moved with her husband and his family. While the husband earned money, wife took care of his family and later on the kids.. So it will be shameful for the parents to stay with their daughters for two reasons: Firstly, she has her own family to take care of and secondly, will be like surviving on someone else's money since the husband is earning all the money. I think that is the reason they have that saying "ladki parayi dhan hoti hai" (it sounds kind of funny though).

I think time has come for girls to take the next step. lol. You cannot talk about independence/equality and at the same time is still putting the main responsibility on husband.

Originally posted by: Heart

According to the traditions what happened before was a girl got married and moved with her husband and his family. While the husband earned money, wife took care of his family and later on the kids.. So it will be shameful for the parents to stay with their daughters for two reasons: Firstly, she has her own family to take care of and secondly, will be like surviving on someone else's money since the husband is earning all the money. I think that is the reason they have that saying "ladki parayi dhan hoti hai" (it sounds kind of funny though).

But looking at the scenario now days, the girls are Independent now days and can contribute equally financially, so I think if she wants she has all the right to stay with her parent. If a girls in-laws are staying with them, why can't her parents? Why should boys have all the fun? 😃 But people do not believing in living together now days, be it parents or in-laws.. I think that is why the number of nuclear families are increasing, while joint families are a becoming a rare thing..

Originally posted by: King-Anu

I think time has come for girls to take the next step. lol. You cannot talk about independence/equality and at the same time is still putting the main responsibility on husband.

They are more than welcome to take financial burden of husband, kids, their family and pay all the bills. They can take husband to shopping also. In return husband can stay home and watch sports, movies, TV serials and orgainze gossip sessions. Soon we will have sasur-damaad tv serials. Ek sasur bhi kabhi damaad tha types.

Originally posted by: .Shayari.

exactly my point is this...why only husbands will get their happiness being together with their parents, but why not girls!!! hope this tradition will get vanish soon...

i always felt alone being far away frommy parents!!😭 i asked them to stay with me..my inlaws also dont stay withus..but No my parents dont agree with this..they always tell me "log kya sochenge agar hum damaad ke ghar mein aake baithey tho" ...

Wow! You know I am someone who is always trying to find the answers to such questions in my life about why is there such a difference between how daughters are treated and how sons are treated and this topic by you deals with one aspect of this difference.

Originally posted by: .Shayari.

pls want a valid reason for this..why do parents stay with only sons?but not with daughters!!

Originally posted by: Khushi.

Wow! You know I am someone who is always trying to find the answers to such questions in my life about why is there such a difference between how daughters are treated and how sons are treated and this topic by you deals with one aspect of this difference.

For the question, well there is only one thing to blame in this matter- CULTURE. The culture in which we have all grown up prohibits Parents to live with there daughters after her getting married. there is actually no one to blame in this case. The mentality and mindset is so deeply rooted in the system of the people that changing such a mindset is like hoping for a revolution.

Originally posted by: Prometeus

Cos of old desi ''''Kanyadaan'''' concept ppl still believe woman as the property where you do 'kanyadaan'...But now a days peoples thoughts n mindset changing slowly...changes happen slowly...!!😊