Life is not easy.. sure... but for me, YES. I DO BELIEVE MY LIFE WILL END HAPPILY.
😆 But seriously...for me, if the ending's not happy.. it's not the end yet.
Finding the "prince Charming" and "living happily ever after" is a bunch of bull. Nothing like that ever happens in real world. Real world is much insecure, and in short - much uglier.
One would be extremely lucky to find their Prince Charming where love between the lovers increases as the day passes by, and when the Prince Charming would love and make a soul-to-soul connection with his princess even when she's old wrinkly pale etc. until their death.
^^ this does not happen in reality, there are VERY few exceptions. Man and wife get tired of each other as they grow old, both become selfish about their needs, health etc...have you ever seen old couple in love? SOMETIMES, here and there... maybe 1 in 1000 couples have a beautiful loving relationship from what I have seen.
Anyways, that ^^ is for people who believe LOVE = happy ending.
I dont believe in nor do i have much hopes in "romance" so, my happy ending is bound to happen ;)
For me, my happyness would lie in watching my future adopted son grow up to be a successful MAN and get married ❤️ ... lol.
But seriously, I cannot tell what will make me happy or what an ideal happy ending would be.. but I am sure and confident that my life will end very beautifully :) Reading good books, cooking, shopping, gardening and travelling make me very happy...so yeah, by the time I grow old I'll have more time to spend on doing things I love. so maybe dying during the days when I indulge in doing things i love will prolly be a happy ending? 😆 I never really thought about what'd be a happy ending.. but I have always concentrated on not doing things that'd KILL my happiness and peace of mind, instead of hoping that I'll have a happy ending.
PS - I'd also like to add that, people change. What you might think will make you happy when yu grow up, may not exactly be the thing that'd make you happy when you get it... I'd say, a man that is content with what life's giving him at present, will be content and live happily always.
Finally, all i can say is having a "happy ending" or not depends greatly on the person... each man is responsible for his own happyness, no one else is.
Hard times, bad days and all are part of life... one cannot play a victim and pray for a happy ending. I strongly believe in - Make a happy ending for yourself if your so concerned about your happyness :) ..like they say where there's a will, there's a way. Or else, accept life whole-heartedly, take it as it comes, embrace it, love it.. you'll automatically be happy. Men are just lazy and succumb to what life throws at them without even trying, such people only know how to cry and scorn at karma, luck, etc. And most others are too egoistic to accept that they have failed to do something/achieve something (that'd give them happyness) - such people play victim.. Therefore the dream of a "happy ending" always remains a dream. 🥱
Edited by Angel-likeDevil - 13 years ago