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Posted: 13 years ago
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Often we make noise that the society need to be changed.. we says that many things of our country or city or village is not going right.. The country has finished .. nothing left to change etc etc.. whether our responsibilities finished with slapping the tables and making some noise? or we need to provide some contribution to change the things? Don't you think that if something irritates us then we need to take the first step ahead to change it?
we've an organization .. share your views with us what can we provide for a healthy change to our society.

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Posted: 13 years ago
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Nice topic :)
I agree with you. Most people nag and nag and nag...all they do is NAG about how the govt is corrrupted, how the govt is slow, how the govt. doesnt implement anything well.
I'd say, none would have a nagging tone if they were discplined, successful themselves. They wouldnt bother nagging as they already are doing some serious business :)
Look at IAS officers, Deputy commissioners, etc etc.. they never nag! And they are in a position where they watch the govt so closely, but they dont nag. Take any successful person... he never complains.
In short.. people may feel bad about unfair things happening, as long as a person criticises/opines his thoughts in a valid manner... it's alright, but 90% of the people who nag/"critique", do not exactly know what they're nagging about.
A small example -- Anti-corruption drama with thousands of youngsters supporting the ACC(anti-corruption crusador) Anna Hazare -- I doubt many youngsters even know what they were "fighting" against. "CORRUPTION!" ~ sure.. even a 6 year-old knows it's a bad thing ! But the thing is, none of them(98% of them), from my experience, they do not know where the corruption actually originates and how bureacracy runs in the govt., and 75% of them do not even touch the newspapers, I'll bet on this! 😃 The simple thing is, if a person knows what corruption is and how it comes from the grassroot levels, he will simply laugh it all off as he will realise that corruption simply cannot be eliminated. OK, this is going off topic, but I just wanted to give you an example :)
I believe, nagging, complaining and all is more deep. It comes from somewhere else.. now, psychology does come into picture (From my experience) Most people do it, to either -
#1 - Satisfy their egos
#2 - For time-pass... to have something to talk about.
Most of the people I know...when they're nagging about something(politics, govt., etc), most of the times, they exactly dont know what they're arguing about... I know, and I can see it when a person is acting smart, trying to act like he is smart.
Taking a step and changing things we are irritated of, it looks too vague and complex for me. IDK in what context I have to answer to that question. If your talking about our surroundings etc, then YES! It always makes sense to take an initiative.. however, this is still remmaining vague for me, common man cannot repair roads, etc.? But still nagging isnt the solution for anything, road is in a bad condition? wanna go to college? Find another way! accept the way the road is and get back to business, got lotsa things to do than just nag about an effing road. That's my idea of a sincere, disciplined person anyways. At the most, one can write to the municipality of that area or write an angry letter to The Hindu bitching about the municipality that never cares... but nagging definately doesnt lead you anywhere 😆
I doubt any of those noisy people do their business in a sincere manner? Their daily activities, I wonder, if they do it perfectly, without any flaws.
I say, if everyone is disciplined and sincere in the way he carries out his day(not just work), and if everyone minds their own business, the world will be more peaceful.
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