Change is Inevitable? - Page 3

Originally posted by: Summer3

They say our body is like a vehicle that we have "borrowed" and has to be returned at the end of the day in good order.
So even suicides are out😆

last I heard the laws regarding suicides were about to change. It would soon cease to be punishable. Under the earlier law one could be punished for failing to commit suicide whereas one who succeeded escaped any punishment! The body too changes with time as do a lot of things

I believe that people dont change for others. Never. something as critical as taking a conscious decision to change is only because of fear of loss, not anyone's happiness. Often these changes are temporary cuz no matter how long they last, the day their fear of loss subsides they come back to square one. This is in reference ti habits usualy.
Secondly comes the change one undergoes because of experience in life. It is usualy gradual, but can be damaging in extreme situations. Damages are irreversible when no effort is taken to heal them nd I feel.this is the change in real sense

Originally posted by: angie.4u

last I heard the laws regarding suicides were about to change. It would soon cease to be punishable. Under the earlier law one could be punished for failing to commit suicide whereas one who succeeded escaped any punishment! The body too changes with time as do a lot of things

Originally posted by: angie.4u

Jaise yin'yang, light-dark, positive-negative, good-evil waise change-consistency !? 🤔

Actually, and this makes for an interesting statement -
For change, you have to be consistent; which is the opposite of change!

Change is inevitable. But is there any variation if one is in group or has to look out for change individually?
The history itself has shown various forms of change- revolution, freedom be it for nation, but they were initiated by human beings in group(may be lead by 1 individual rest falling in steps).
But does it variate when it comes for individual stance? May be yes, because it will be one man show (your Personality) the affects, the views/impression perceived by people.
The impression created shape the Attitude of the person, say towards the individual or even an object.
Change in one's life can be like new/modified features in a gadget. You want to be on with the latest trends or best say move on with time, you will buy them, but whether you implement them or not lies in your hands.

"jab Fitrat(nature) mein nahi ho, toh niyat(intention)karne ka kya fayda."

Originally posted by: angie.4u

So everyone agrees that change can occur whether volitional or imposed. It could be temporary or more long lasting depending on the alignment with ones belief system.

So where is the hitch?

Why are we not able to bring about the change we desire to see in ourselves and in others?

If change is inevitable we ought to be able to bring about the desired change.

What hinders and can anything be done about it?

If yes, what?

what if the hindrance is nothing but a 'mask' you put on & move about. Even though there is desire to accept, gel with all cna it not be hidden beneath a mask?

Originally posted by: FaithnFate

what if the hindrance is nothing but a 'mask' you put on & move about. Even though there is desire to accept, gel with all cna it not be hidden beneath a mask?

Originally posted by: FaithnFate

"jab Fitrat(nature) mein nahi ho, toh niyat(intention)karne ka kya fayda."

Originally posted by: Mindbender

Actually, and this makes for an interesting statement -
For change, you have to be consistent; which is the opposite of change!

So it appears! Two sides of the same coin.