Ever missed anyone very badly ?

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Ever missed anyone very badly ? Although sad it can also be a beautiful feeling to know that you can still love. What is your take on this ?
To love does not mean that we have to be with a certain someone, having good loving thoughts will carry us through. All it needs is a little patience and understanding perhaps.

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Yes, I have 😳 and I dont like the idea at all...Although it's really sweet to cherish some memory which is absolutely personal but the longing to see ur loved one or to hear the special person's voice is sometime very painful...
I want my loved one to remain closer to me..not very close which can eat out my space but not so far so that I have to miss them...😃
Sometimes some unfortunate circumstances may not allow us to remain close with the special person for ever but then if the memory is not bitter we can always keep that alive within you and those personal moments can lighten up our monotonous day to day life anytime..
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I don't have an idea about missing somebody that badly or no - but I'll tell you what, nothing lasts forever. Not even the pain of not being with the person you've always loved. Pardon me if am found wrong but that is what I have to say about this.

I tend to miss onto people I have never had in life - like my grand dad who passed away when I was six, an elder brother and a best friend. There are so many relationships people are in but never get to seek the happiness out of it, and that I believe has to be an even bitter pain. Pain of missing onto something you can never have!


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Posted: 14 years ago
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Heck yeah i miss someone rite now ❤️ 😔
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Originally posted by: Rimpa.

Yes, I have 😳 and I dont like the idea at all...Although it's really sweet to cherish some memory which is absolutely personal but the longing to see ur loved one or to hear the special person's voice is sometime very painful...

I want my loved one to remain closer to me..not very close which can eat out my space but not so far so that I have to miss them...😃
Sometimes some unfortunate circumstances may not allow us to remain close with the special person for ever but then if the memory is not bitter we can always keep that alive within you and those personal moments can lighten up our monotonous day to day life anytime..

yes sometime we only value a person or a relationship when it is missing.
We tend to take things from granted and expect everything to be the same always. But relationships, friendships, company all do need a little nuturing and care, basically we have to make time for it and learn to appreciate those whom we value.
For those who have left India recently it may take sometime to get used to a new country.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: baz786

Heck yeah i miss someone rite now ❤️ 😔

Yep she is in the middleeast I believe😆
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Kanky-

I don't have an idea about missing somebody that badly or no - but I'll tell you what, nothing lasts forever. Not even the pain of not being with the person you've always loved. Pardon me if am found wrong but that is what I have to say about this.

I tend to miss onto people I have never had in life - like my grand dad who passed away when I was six, an elder brother and a best friend. There are so many relationships people are in but never get to seek the happiness out of it, and that I believe has to be an even bitter pain. Pain of missing onto something you can never have!


Missing your grand dad. Guess you think of him cause he was a most wonderful person.
Last I saw my grand dads was when I was 3 or 4 years old and I still remember them very clearly including my home town.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: Summer3

Ever missed anyone very badly ?

Yes
Although sad it can also be a beautiful feeling to know that you can still love.
Just because we miss someone does it mean that we love that person ? We could miss a person purely for selfish reasons too eg we may miss someone because of the help or benefit that we were getting in his presence or due to his presence 😉 😆
What is your take on this ?
Stated it above 😛
To love does not mean that we have to be with a certain someone, having good loving thoughts will carry us through.
Oh sure , the thoughts are enough to carry one through 😃
All it needs is a little patience and understanding perhaps.
When theres no other choice thats what we need to do anyways 😳

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Originally posted by: crazy_sunny

Ever missed anyone very badly ?
Yes
Although sad it can also be a beautiful feeling to know that you can still love.
Just because we miss someone does it mean that we love that person ? We could miss a person purely for selfish reasons too eg we may miss someone because of the help or benefit that we were getting in his presence or due to his presence 😉 😆
What is your take on this ?
Stated it above 😛
To love does not mean that we have to be with a certain someone, having good loving thoughts will carry us through.
Oh sure , the thoughts are enough to carry one through 😃
All it needs is a little patience and understanding perhaps.
When theres no other choice thats what we need to do anyways 😳

Suny Bhai pyar kiya to darna kya😆 Yes love can be selfish at times, basically it is mostly attachment.
100% pure love is rare, closest could be a mother and a child
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Posted: 14 years ago
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I miss someone very badly right now. But it's not love. But I haven't missed someone to this extent? So does this make it love?

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