The GLORY of being 'SINGLE' !!!! - Page 6

Originally posted by: *Woh Ajnabee*

But rituals are so much fun! Why are you so boring?

Originally posted by: shaktheback

I dunt get this 'Half- Single' thing now. Tmrw if im nt committed to my wife, can I say I'm half married ?

Originally posted by: *Woh Ajnabee*

I fail to see where the confusion lies. Either you are married or you're not. If you're not, then you're either single or you're in a relationship (relationship is a loose term). What is so confusing about that? That whole "its complicated" thing on Facebook also goes over my head as well. What the heck is so complicated?!?

I have this weird thing where I don't like people who have "its complicated" chosen on their relationship status on their Facebook profiles. I already know right off the bat I'm not going to get along with this person. First of all, make up your mind and un-complicate things. And even if that is just so undoable, I cannot help but wonder what compels me to inform the world about their complicated relationship status. I have a feeling most of 'em are single and hating it, so they pick that category to help lie to themselves and others who may happen to see that on their profile. 😆

Originally posted by: shaktheback

What do you think you are ?

I'm very much single. And, I don't know if it's the best, cos I have never been in a romantic relationship with anyone.

Can one enjoy life like a Single when Committed ? 😃

Maybe one can. I am committed to everyone who I share a relation with - my parents, my best friends. And being involved in relationships does have times where you need to compromise, you cannot expect to have all the freedom like you can when single. Plus, I have been compromising in issues with parents since I was a kid, so, when you make a relation with someone - it does mean losing some of you're freedom for their sake and you have been losing some freedom because of parents and all. There will be times when you feel the need to be alone, but then when you make a relation - you are bound to make a committment, else it's not called a relationship according to me.

Why do you think one should remain Single/ In a Relationship ?

I don't think one SHOULD be single or in a relationship. Either way, there are pros and cons. Most single feel the need to be in a relationship and people, in a relationship have times where they would want to be all alone, return to their singledom. Personally, I don't think anything, it depends whether you're single or in-a-relationship. And when you're in a relationship - in love with someone that is, you can't escape either, you just feel chained down- fall into their gravity? 😆

What is your take to commitment to a person before marriage ?

Like I said, a relationship is called a "relationship" when you make a committment to him/her. So, yes.. there's nothing wrong in making a committment before marriage. How could you marry someone without making a committment in first place?! 🤔

Originally posted by: angie.4u

I would say that its a very personal decision and so is the need or no need for sociolegal conformation. As a social being most of the ppl would love to follow some social norms especially those that are not harmful in anyway. Wanting to remain single can be understood but if one is already committed then should one shun marriage just for being a non conformist or is there something against the institution of marriage itself ! Even if an individual man or a woman does not feel the need for sociolegal approval what about the kids ? I dont really see any harm in a sociolegal approval . Or am I missing a point somewhere ..

Originally posted by: *Woh Ajnabee*

Oye Shak, kuch din tak toh you were waving flags of love for your girlfriend ... single hue vay do din nahi hue ke mingling ke khayal shuru! 😆

Originally posted by: return_to_hades

Crickey....this thread kind of created flashbacks.

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