Why are certain men so disgusting ? - Page 5

Originally posted by: souro

And the man wasn't having an affair with another man. So, ain't the other women similarly disgusting.

I was confused at first. But I agree - an affair is never one sided. There was a similar topic - affair with married people.

Originally posted by: souro

I don't know why you brought FOBs in the discussion. But anyways... there are around 500 million males in India. I hope you don't think the whole lot is disgusting or perverted. If not, then obviously all FOBs won't be disgusting or perverted either as it's the same men who are going abroad. Thing is you'll most prolly come in touch with more desi FOBs than FOBs of some other country which will increase the chances of seeing more disgusting desi FOBs.

He probably is not getting something at home and someone outside the home is readily willing to offer it. So perhaps there is some sort of understanding. But now that it happens so openly she is perhaps takes it as an insult.. What happens in a relationship is not known completely to outside world.

Originally posted by: *Woh Ajnabee*

Anyways, let's not lose hope - I'm sure there is a guy out there who's not like that. And if he's there, then he's mine, so back off. 😆

Oh Karan singh Grover

the laboon ka guy yeah?

Ahh dont care what crap he does in his life,..as long as he continues his chemistry with the Riddihma girl and makes me melt than i am happy :D!

Xoxo

Originally posted by: Gauri_3

That said; I still feel that MOST women cheat because they are lacking emotional connection with their current spouse where as MOST men cheat because of the thirlls of physical relatonship. This doesn't make one form of cheating superior to another or vice versa. This is just an observation.

Originally posted by: *Woh Ajnabee*

Anyways, let's not lose hope - I'm sure there is a guy out there who's not like that. And if he's there, then he's mine, so back off. 😆

if you really find one that would be really good 😆 but are you sure he will be straight and clean like a white sheet of paper 😉 no one is perfect na 😳

but yea we will back off if not you will give us death glare yea 😛 j/k

Originally posted by: Gauri_3

Now a days, more and more women are cheating too. Today's woman is more independent financially and stepping outside her home more often than before. She has the exact same opportunities that her male counterpart has had in the past. Today's woman also considers herself at par with her man. If she is not satisfied in her marriage, chances are either she is going to say something about it or she is going to do something about it - just like the man has been doing all along.

This change in mindset along with the financial and emotional freedom is the main reason for more women cheating these days than before. Hence, we can't go on claiming that only guys cheat or only guys are disgusting.

That said; I still feel that MOST women cheat because they are lacking emotional connection with their current spouse where as MOST men cheat because of the thirlls of physical relatonship. This doesn't make one form of cheating superior to another or vice versa. This is just an observation.

Originally posted by: _DrEaM_

if you really find one that would be really good 😆 but are you sure he will be straight and clean like a white sheet of paper 😉 no one is perfect na 😳

but yea we will back off if not you will give us death glare yea 😛 j/k

If he's not clean like a white sheet of paper, I'm going to give him a death glare. 😆 Perhaps I expect too much from life, and forget that sometimes perfection is unattainable, but I do certainly believe in hope. Maybe it is naive of me to do so, but I certainly expect the guy that I end up with to be pure, in every sense of the word. He doesn't have to be perfect, I think purity will suffice. As it is, perfection is overrated. And I'll cut him some slack - poor guy's going to have to deal with me for a whole lifetime. Even I have trouble doing that some days. 😆

Originally posted by: *Woh Ajnabee*

If he's not clean like a white sheet of paper, I'm going to give him a death glare. 😆 Perhaps I expect too much from life, and forget that sometimes perfection is unattainable, but I do certainly believe in hope. Maybe it is naive of me to do so, but I certainly expect the guy that I end up with to be pure, in every sense of the word. He doesn't have to be perfect, I think purity will suffice. As it is, perfection is overrated. And I'll cut him some slack - poor guy's going to have to deal with me for a whole lifetime. Even I have trouble doing that some days. 😆

Hmm I think expectation and hope are two different things. You expect and when you do not get you get upset a big time as the expected usually turns out to be unexpected😆 I do not like to keep any expectation about anything, yet I still keep hope about certain things is life. I just hope for achieving or getting something but getting it or not is never certain so it depends on my hard work, life and luck too. I too hope for a perfect guy even if i know there is perfection in this world. You are right about purity, if he is pure from mind that is already a big compliment 😳

I sometimes wonder how will a guy stay with me all his life with my weird nature lol 😆