Why are certain men so disgusting ?

Originally posted by: shaktheback

I just came across this actor Karan Singh Grover who seems to have broken with his wife coz he has dated two more women in life !!! One is the choreographer and another co-star .

It may be a personal issue, but don't we have something to learn from it ?
Why can't certain men whose wives trust them the most CHEAT ? Isn't it unfair on women ?
Now just imagine the case of his wife ??

Women and men are equal today. But what can women do if they are cheated by their husbands this way ?


PS : NO TALKING ABOUT THE ACTOR HERE. Lets speak about such men in general who have extra marital affair and cheat on their wives.

Do they have any right to be celebs ? What kind of Fame and Respect would they have in society ?

Tomorrow this same woman will nt look so beautiful..... As days pass, the man and the woman both will feel that they are imprisoned. They have know each other's geography completely. First it was an unknown territory to be discovered, now there is nothing to be discovered.....Thn after he/she start search new things in life.......Love is bound to turn into hate, and for the whole life the hate goes on accumulating.....😊

If I love a woman, and one day she says that she has fallen in love with somebody else and feels very happy, I will be happy. I love her, and I would like her to be happy -- where is the problem? 😊I will help her in every way so that she can be more happy. If she can be more happy with somebody else, what hurts me?😊

I am going to play devil's advocate here a bit.

Why do some men cheat and indulge in such promiscuous behavior. One primary reason is because they know they can get away with it. The only reason they know they can get away with this is because women are prone to irrational behavior. It is a fact that good looking men and women get lot of admiration, adulation and undue attention. However, women tend to be illogical in their admiration. They literally will place the objects of their affection on a pedestal and deem them flawless, even if they happen to fancy a manho, he gets put on the pedestal. Men on the other hand may be smitten by a woman, and may even place women they admire on a pedestal - but its not irrational - and they tend to be really choose in distinguishing between women they respect and those they perceive as hos.

So it is clearly evident why men might want to take advantage of this irrational behavior. You can clearly see it by the vehement denial in women who are in love with such men.

In general society too is structured in an imbalanced manner. A man who has an affair will not be judged as harshly, but a woman who cheats will be looked down upon severely and put through social rebuke and ostracize - even if there is a compellingly good reason for cheating on her end.

However, before one passes judgment on any man - you have to think twice. How well do you really now him? Other than the relationship front you saw put before you, did you know how the couple was in private. Have you talked to him heart to heart to know why he did what he did. Do you know for sure he is acting out of pure lust, and has no other reason to cheat. Do you even know for sure he is cheating. Do you genuinely know all the people involved as human beings, as people you can talk to and know whats going on. Can you really be so sure that a third party account, a scandalous report, is going to paint an honest picture - especially in the case of celebrities. Can you really judge anyone in a positive or negative light just because of the media or the shows and interviews they do?

Another aspect I want to touch on is that I personally think women expect way too much out of their significant others. According to them even flirting or looking is cheating. When you are so harshly judgmental you put too much pressure on people - and can drive them over the edge even if they do not mean to. Some people are naturally flirtatious and touchy feely in their interactions, that does not mean they do not care for the people they committed too. The definition of cheating can be really hard to define.

Finally as some have pointed out - women too can be equally disgusting. Women too cheat and have affairs and emotionally destroy men who love them very much. Women too have strong desires not just physical and can drain and hurt men with their unending demands and expectations.

If anyone watches Glee, you can tell why Will Schuester feels so weighed down by his wife Terri Schuester and what a terrible woman she is that you are actually rooting for Will to cheat on her for his happiness.

Originally posted by: *Woh Ajnabee*

Anyways, let's not lose hope - I'm sure there is a guy out there who's not like that. And if he's there, then he's mine, so back off. 😆

Not to break your bubble girls, but

Is he handsome like a Greek God?
Is he intelligent and can hold a conversation?
Is he kind and compassionate?
Does he actually try to understand you?

Then he is as straight as the rainbow. 😆

Okay, I usually don't like to laugh at people's woes, but O-M-G!

THE Karan Singh Grover is a two-timing (whoops, I mean three-timing) jerk? The KSG that all these girls on IF have made into some kind of Greek God, where they hold him high on a pedestal, and assume that he can do no wrong, has cheated three different women? And now I go and read the IF article and see the comments below it where there are silly teenage girls who are STILL supporting this can't-dance-to-save-his-life freak.

My question is what the hell is wrong with these people? Shiney Ahuja and now him - do six packs and hot bodies come with a package of immorality? And why are teenage girls soooo stupid? For the love of God, get over good looks.

Back to the topic - why are men so disgusting? I don't think we should limit this to men only, there are women out there who are just as much of a low-life. With the example of KSG, why did Jennifer Winget or Nicole involve themselves with him knowing that he's married? Their automatic first thought should've been that if he can leave his wife for me, then he'll leave me for someone else - stupid bimbos. And to top it all of - we can always be left wondering is this kind of publicity stunt?

Anyways, back to why people in general are so disgusting - I think because they can be, because they have the ability to be and the opportunities to make it happen. And especially because there are others who support them in their decisions. The first time you do something wrong - its a mistake, but after that its immoral. And knowing the difference is the key here.

Anyways, let's not lose hope - I'm sure there is a guy out there who's not like that. And if he's there, then he's mine, so back off. 😆

I am about to make one of the most generalised comments ever but believe me I only say this as a result of personal experience.

Originally posted by: angelic_devil

Hmmmm.........well beauty has nothin to do with arrogance and why would one need vocal admirers?

true. most women do not like fake praise. they like to know the truth. honesty is the best quality oh sorry policy.😆

and i agree women who inspite of knowing that karan grover was married, still went around with him r disgusting too, infact even more than him.🤢

I think some men like to believe that beautiful women need their male assurance of beauty, in a painful attempt to justify their idiocracies. They know beautiful women could care less about their existence. Delusions help them perceive their existence more worthwhile.

But on the whole, most men are secure enough to avoid delusions.

yes it's pretty general that guys do suspect their wives even if their wives are just friends with some male....and when they have tons of female friends or affairs....he expect the wife not to question at all....how is that fair enough.....

(Pika....scraps 😔)