Why is Feminist a negative word? - Page 3

Originally posted by: souro

Some natural Fact I feel....If a man starts crying and weeping, people start telling him, "Don't weep like a woman, don't cry like a woman; don't be sissy." This is nonsense -- becoe a man has as many tear-glands in his eye as a woman. Thre r moments whn a man is soft and should be feminine. 😉

Originally posted by: Believe

Some natural Fact I feel....If a man starts crying and weeping, people start telling him, "Don't weep like a woman, don't cry like a woman; don't be sissy." This is nonsense -- becoe a man has as many tear-glands in his eye as a woman. Thre r moments whn a man is soft and should be feminine. 😉its not the tear glands but the brain that manages that makes you cry and which is different from women's brain!!! lol

Same like ..If a girl starts behaving like a man, is ambitious, aggressive -- mm? -- people start thinking that something is wrong... something hormonal is wrong....😊

and Its true that...sometimes in a rage a woman becoms more dangerous than a man, and sometimes in soft moments a man is more loving than any woman .....

Society teach us.....woman has to be a woman twenty-four hours --soft, loving, compassionate..... this is too much of a duty. sometimes she also wants to fight, be angry, throw things -- n this is good...This is how God has become divided in you, to have a play of hide n seek wth himself....

And in our deep down aware of the fact that the woman has something which he does nt have. In the first place the woman is attractive to him, she looks beautiful. He falls in love with the woman, the woman becomes almost an addiction to him...😃we condemn all qualities as weaknesses Women are women and men are men...... there is no question of comparison.😊right men are superior and women are not is that what u meant?😆

I agree we man wanted to prove himself superior....in different cultures, different countries, bt her imprisonment has been almost the same...I feel the real superiority has its own magnetic force.just magnetic ot electro-magnetic...!!??? Becos men condemned woman......its true that....woman is more loving. The man has not shown greater love than the woman. Millions of women have died ...... thy have jumped alive into the funeral pyre wth their beloveds becos thy could not conceive of a life without their husband or friend.....single man has dared to jump into a funeral pyre with his wife😉She is brave enough....but she lack ambition...she only need support...not a feminist group...😊Agreed.... women need to be women and do what they were supposed to do.. i believe you believe....😉

Originally posted by: qwertyesque

Agreed.... women need to be women and do what they were supposed to do.. i believe you believe....😉

Originally posted by: *Woh Ajnabee*

And I believe we are doing what we are supposed to be doing .... disagreeing. 😉---Karo karoo...😆cos a man is not Supposed to be a man twenty-four hours, he will be more relaxed.....😉

Originally posted by: sonur15

Even in my dreams i think like a woman 😆..why ??? i dont know the reason 😆 .Both r two faces of the same coin .No doubt men are physically stronger than women no doubt about that but seriously i dont think men r superior.They r incomplete without each other .

Originally posted by: sonur15

No doubt men are physically stronger than women no doubt about that but seriously i dont think men r superior.They r incomplete without each other .

Completely agree with you 100% Souro. Both genders should receive equal opportunities and both better be grilled strictly before getting a job.

Yeah , that's the way it ought to be !😊

In today's world, it does not matter whether you are a guy or girl, but it's your ability and intellect needed for the job which are taken into consideration.

Gender is an imp consideration at times . Some companies may not be very keen on hiring female workers if there is a choice between an equally qualified male & female candidate; as they are not too keen about giving maternity benefits to female employees. In addition it's the female employee who usually take leave to look after a sick relative. This puts them at a disadvantage for being selected

It is very less today to see a male dominating a female.

and it's pretty stupid for those feminists (not all) who want special privilege even if they lack the ability, in the name of feminism. I m also against privileges without capability. U certainly cant make a woman a pilot just for equality unless she is trained to be capable ! 😉

It's the males of previous society's fault how women were treated then. Why should the men of today's society be punished for that? Not all male have really changed that much even today. Even now many males in the society are quite regressive in their thinking inspite of their education !😔

That's just stupid...everyone's equal, both men and women, and no one should get special treatment.

Yeah no one shud get special treatment nor any special mistreatment .👍🏼 I m all for equal opportunities ! Let all men share the household & child rearing chores equally with their female counterparts and we wud have an even ground for both the sexes to a great extent !😉

Also, who said women today are more competent and can multi task?

Yeah , its wrong to generalize . Competency is a quality not all females nor do all males possess.

I haven't seen many women do that. They're either house wives who take care of their families really well or they're women who work and bring home salary and support their family that way. I haven't seen one female so far who can do both and still bring up a good family.

There are some females who are doing an excellent job at both homefront as well as jobfront !I agree it's a tight rope walk ! BTW for that matter , how many men have we seen doing a good job of both?

Both men and women have the ability to do what they're good at. Everyone's competent at something, more or less, so it's foolishness to think a whole gender is better than the other. That's not much different from the mindset of previous society. The goal of today's society is to move away from that mindset, and if feminists want men to be treated as lower today, then how can they be expected to be called better than the men of the previous society? It's just repeating the same mistake over. Foolish...

Mindset needs changing in a lot of fields. Prejudices towards gender, race, color, religion , customs all need to be changed 😊

Originally posted by: souro