should married men be allowed to marry again ?? - Page 6

Originally posted by: angie.4u

Havent U seen the three wives of President Lula vying for the post of first lady 😉😆As far as rational reasons R concerned they know best ...😆

😆 the whole thing is that ki bhaiyya sabse bada rupaiyya😆

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Originally posted by: the_Naked_face

Cloddy beta, tum is waqt online kyon ho beta??

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mata ji, men ko eksaath ek se zyada wives rakhne se rokne ke liye😆

Originally posted by: clodpolish

mata ji, men ko eksaath ek se zyada wives rakhne se rokne ke liye😆

😆Why did i edit my post?

acording to me its completely abd..how can u marry when yr wife is present..

Originally posted by: crazy_sunny

I meant the logic about the number 4 , any particular significance?

Originally posted by: ghina

i cant say exactly, but as far as i know, it is to be said that a man's sexual desire is highter compare to a womans. So inorder to fulfill his desire's in a rightful manner, to marry 4 women is allowed in islam. Because in islam to commit sex before marriage is a big sin. However, conditions being applied that one should only marry more than 1 if he can treat all the wifes equally, which i doubt a man can do.

Nonsense. The reason why Islam had permitted men to engage in consensual, limited polygamous relation is because the number of men in the world is lesser than the number of women (well, on that time; can't say the correct statistics of today), in general. Per my knowledge, men and women are born in equal numbers at birth, but due to accidents, wars, etc, the death rate of men was higher, thus there having a lot of women more than men in this world. If every men have married one woman, there would be about a lot of women left unmarried, hence it is permitted for a man to get engaged into a consensual, limited polygamous relation, that might help the unmarried population.

Of course, now that women too work outside, I do not think the men/women ratio is still the same, hence this law might not be applicable for this time.

May I ask you, where did you get that gross reasoning from?

I left this topic a while back, but had to come back to respond to your post. I am not trying to justify or falsify Islam, but the reasoning you gave is completely false.

Originally posted by: crazy_sunny

But ghina thats a gross generalisation . What if a woman is more sexed ? Does islam permit her to marry 4 times?

someone asked the logic... so as far as i have been taught that's what we have been told.... and as far as a women is concerned its something we also did bring forward while we were studying... but the answer we got for that is that a women is the one who gives birth to the child which at the end of the day belongs to the father.... so it makes the child's identity into question if a women have sex with many.... and if the child's father is not known, the child becomes illegitimate... so it is a loss to the child...