What is the perfect age to get married???

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Posted: 16 years ago

Hey folks I am Mahi just wanna know what according to you is the perfect age to get married?
I know many questions will come to your mind that why am i asking this question but this is onething which i wanted to ask to everyone long time ago.

have few question to ask

1)Is there any problem getting married in early age?

2)Can we change the fated things?

3)Why is being married at 18 or 19 is taken so seriously wen a person is mature mentally,phisicaly and legally?

Your comments are Welcome!😊

Edited by mahikhan - 16 years ago

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Hey Mahi Great topic

I think there is no such thing as the perfect age to get married..some people want more out of life than just getting marriage as want their career to be in shape first..for example the stars dont get married before the age of 30 and for them thats idea. However i am against teenage marriages. I Think a person is too young at that age to take on responsibilties and commitment, i suppose the ideal age i would like to get married is at 24 and about 26 for a guy. Marriage is a once in a life-time experience, i want to wait for the right time first, i dont think im mature enough yet lol, some however mature alot faster than other, depending on they have been brought up etc. Maturity comes wiht experience and i dont have enough of that yet. Still a few years for my marriage !

Would comment more later on this, great topic though!

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Gursharan

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Posted: 16 years ago

Oh Mahi😆

I think it's perfectly fine to get married at any age, as long as it's your own will. Because if you find the right person at the right time, and you understand each other well, then there is no problem.

But if you are being forced to marry at this age, especially an arranged marriage then it's not right. You should be given more time.

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Originally posted by: Gur.N.cool
Oh Mahi😆

I think it's perfectly fine to get married at any age, as long as it's your own will. Because if you find the right person at the right time, and you understand each other well, then there is no problem.

But if you are being forced to marry at this age, especially an arranged marriage then it's not right. You should be given more time.

thanks gur!

well i dont agree to the underlined remember there is onething which we call fate and we cannt help it can we stop a dying person from dying no we cann't since his death is fated the same way we cannot stop a person to get married bcoz Marraiges too are decided on heavens atleast i belive so!

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Posted: 16 years ago

Originally posted by: mahikhan

thanks gur!

well i dont agree to the underlined remember there is onething which we call fate and we cannt help it can we stop a dying person from dying no we cann't since his death is fated the same way we cannot stop a person to get married bcoz Marraiges too are decided on heavens atleast i belive so!

oh i definitely believe in arranged marriages, and i have said that before many times. they are better than love marriages.
what i meant was, if it's a forced marriage. like if if you didn't want to marry at this age, and yet your parents are forcing you.

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Posted: 16 years ago

^^hmmmm......there you go yeah but i was so happy while i was getting married i was like thank God ABHI NANI WILL SAY NOTHING TO ME lol!

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Posted: 16 years ago

It all varies from person to person, I'd say. There's no one perfect age for marriage. Personally, I think marriage requires maturity. That is why I am a little critical of teen marriages, because I think that at that point in life there's so much mental growth and development, that it is hard to find a high level of maturity on both sides then (speaking generally, of course). Now does that mean that all 19-year olds are immature? Absolutely not. You say that you were mentally prepared for marriage at that time, I stand at the same stage of life right now say heck no, marriage can wait another few years, at the very least. 😆

But Mahi, you're very lucky that you found your special someone, so early in life.

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Posted: 16 years ago

I don't think there's a perfect age, but anywhere between 18-30 is a good age. Before 18 is a BIG no no, and it's also not allowed, and though some people do wait until after 30, I personally feel that it is a bit too late. I guess the "perfect" age would be from 22-25 for females and 25-30 for males, but marrying before or after is perfectly fine.

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Posted: 16 years ago

Originally posted by: mahikhan
have few question to ask

1)Is there any obstacle of getting married in early age? One important one. Legal age of consent.

2)Can we change the fated things? I am not sure what you mean. If you are destined for each other, then why not live your life first and then keep a date with destiny. If you are with the wrong person, then you can always change that.

3)Why is being married at 18 or 19 is taken so seriously wen a person is mature mentally,phisicaly and according to law?I am assuming you mean why it is taken so seriously in a negative way when it is legal.

At eighteen you are at the threshold of adulthood. You have a whole life ahead of you. In todays day and age, at eighteen you will be going off to college, starting a career. You will meet new people, gain new perspectives and ambitions. You will go through many important changes in life that will change your perspective in life and what you want out of it. That is why it is wise to wait, instead of getting into a decision that may or may not work out. You do not want to hit a point later in life when you regret your decisions or feel that marriage held you back, or that you did not have the fun college experiences like your peers did, or you may feel attracted to better prospects and feel conflicted.

Say at eighteen you have found the person you want to be with for the rest of your life, whats the harm in waiting. If a few years down the road after completing your education, you still want to be together - thats great. You will be happy together and you will have the confidence knowing it was meant to be. If you find someone else or simply have changed your mind - you avoided a mistake.

Marriage is a very important decision. You cannot hurry love. There is nothing wrong in marrying early, but there is wisdom in waiting, and no harm from it either.

Your comments are Welcome!😊

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Posted: 16 years ago

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have few question to ask

1)Is there any problem getting married in early age?

There is no problem in getting married early..you have to be ready in life before committing yourself to someone and if you believe you are ready then there shouldn't be a problem what so ever. However i do believe that for girls especially if you get married early then its very difficult to continue on studying..especially when you have kids later on in life. People also change alot during the age of '18 to say 24, they change emotionally, physically and mentally. At that age a person hearts tends to change alot too. I would personally advice to get married after graduation.

2)Can we change the fated things?

I believe there is a purpose and plans to do certain things..they dont just happen randomly, certain things happen because it was fated to happen. I am a firm believer in fate. An example of this would be that sometimes you try your best and you dont get the results you expect to get, where as other time you dont try at all and still get the unexpected result..thats our fate. Fate is God's providence if it will happen it will happen, things happen for purpose and things happen to find out whas our purpose in life is. why do some people have painful lives where as others have everything in life?

To answer your question mahi, we can change fate..but we cant escape from it.

I think ive answered all your questions now eh?

Xoxo

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