What is the perfect age to get married??? - Page 2

Originally posted by: *Woh Ajnabee*

It all varies from person to person, I'd say. There's no one perfect age for marriage. Personally, I think marriage requires maturity. That is why I am a little critical of teen marriages, because I think that at that point in life there's so much mental growth and development, that it is hard to find a high level of maturity on both sides then (speaking generally, of course). Now does that mean that all 19-year olds are immature? Absolutely not. You say that you were mentally prepared for marriage at that time, I stand at the same stage of life right now say heck no, marriage can wait another few years, at the very least. 😆

But Mahi, you're very lucky that you found your special someone, so early in life.

Originally posted by: return_to_hades

Originally posted by: ammygurl

25 years....
actually..you are ready to take mental, emotional and physical stress at that time...
atleast i think so..

Originally posted by: mahikhan

well i guess you guys didnt get my point the actual thing which forced me to start this thread was to askl ppl that why is marriage in late teens like 18/19 is being taken so negatively when we all believe that Marriages are decided in heaven and everything is in God's hands we cannot change the fated things like death time is fixed so is marriage time fixed with no changes early or late it's God's decision 😊

Originally posted by: _LalithaJanaki_

I personally feel that whatever is written in fate will happen. Even when the destinies of two people are written together, their marriage won't happen until their destiny decrees it to be the right time. That's why some people get married at the early age of 18 and others do not even if they're 35. Marriage is different for every person.

I do not believe marriages at the age of 18 or 19 are bad if the married people have their parents' blessings and the marriage is done according to social customs and religious rites. I know a number of people who got married early in life and are very happy right now. However, if two people get married without parents' blessings, like if they elope or something against family's wishes, 90% their marriage will not last, because they do not have the financial support of parents, and how many 18-20 year olds have a stable job in life enough to support two people and possibly children?

Many times, people who're married at the age of 18 or 19 (with family blessings) are financially supported by their parents until they achieve a stable career in life. In that case, why is their marriage wrong? It is not, but if people marry at an early age without family support, then their marriage most likely will not last.

Originally posted by: Believe

I think there's no perfect Age for marriage!!!! sub after marriage perfect ho jate hey!!😉 Marriage is give and take. You'd better give it to her or she'll take it anyway😉😛

😆..sorry double post