Who is right? Adarsh or Swadheenta? - Page 2

@Moon - I think we have to take the liberty of assuming certain facts that are not necessarily shown on screen. They have time limitations etc and cannot show everything. So, not getting into the specifics, if you look at it purely from a character perspective, every chance that an outsider has opposed Swadheenta's views, Adarsh has defended her. Of late, their only point of discussion is his worry for her. We know that he still loves her and we have to assume that he is concerned and worried for her.

Is there only one definitive way to express your love and commitment for someone? Has Simmi tried reasoning with Swadheenta about her wrong choices? Jaya? Jaidev? Adarsh has, Suhasini has. Can that not be his way of standing with her through all this? His initial anger, agony and frustration came from the fact that he had just lost Abhay. He could not sympathize with her for Asad because of overwhelming evidence against Asad. But even if you see his own character, it has evolved. He is not distant towards her, he is emotional and disturbed, but he is talking to her. He has expressed his concern for her. Under the circumstances this is the best he can do. In fact, in the confines of their room he has more reason to be vocal towards her, more reason to tell her exactly how he feels. He is upset, and he should not hide it from her. She knows it, she knows where he stands.

My only point is that both of them are blind when it comes to their families. And Swadheenta has been more open and forthcoming as a person. She believes in direct talk, facing the truth etc That is nature to her. But for Adarsh, his inherent nature is to strike a balance and maintain a healthy equilibrium. He takes up the responsibility to do that always. So, their reactions to every situation cannot be the same because as people they are different. But the underlying fact still remains that he cares about her. He tries to reason with her. He tries to make her understand. Can it not be possible at all that this is his way of showing his love and concern?

I like the way all the characters have been etched to be honest. They all have their strengths, but they are all vulnerable and have their weaknesses too. 😃. Swadheenta, Suhasini and Adarsh are all perfect in their own way. I don't have any qualms with any of these three. I think their reactions to every situation are totally justified.