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visrom

@visrom

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Posted: 13 years ago

#261

How do you feel if you have an old friend with whom every little conversation ends in a misunderstanding and fight? Why does it happen? How to prevent this? By stopping talking altogether?

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Daydreaming

@Daydreaming

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

#262

Is it just with you or with everyone he/she talks to??
If its with everyone, you should ask your friend that s/he should think over this that why it happens with him/her only.
And if its just between both of you, try to sort it out, and if not possible, dont stop abruptly but talk less to the person. Because, sometimes your peace of mind is important than anything else.

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Bhavanab

@Bhavanab

Stunner

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Posted: 13 years ago

#263

I feel it's by taking an initiative to talk .. at times I've always believe we have to take the initiative because we value the relation that's shared more than anything .. but yes even after we take an initiative and still we get a cold response .. then I guess it's crossed the level of repairs ..

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visrom

@visrom

Stunner

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Posted: 13 years ago

#264

Originally posted by: pvkd

And if its just between both of you, try to sort it out, and if not possible, dont stop abruptly but talk less to the person. Because, sometimes your peace of mind is important than anything else.

Yeah...you are right. but sometimes, you want to make it work...like before...when you used to talk about anything under the sun...when the same person changes so much it becomes tough to accept.

I don't know what happens with her and others...but I know that I don't have this problem with anyone barring her (and may be one more person), so it's not like I lack relationship skills. I am satisfying myself with this...and moving on. Anyday she wishes to talk, I am open to it.

But I just feel...😭😭😭

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Bhavanab

@Bhavanab

Stunner

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Posted: 13 years ago

#265

Don't feel like that Vis .. it's actually hurting .. but you know we should never give up hope .. you said you're open to talk with anytime she wants .. and that's nice .. it's always that we should never cut of the bond if the person matters .. and so it's like leaving it .. and see what happens with the course of time :-)

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SAGNIKA

@Shagnika

Rocker

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Posted: 13 years ago

#266

I guess misunderstandings happen in most relationships. But after sometime, things get back to normal... that's the best thing about friendship ! No misunderstanding can go for long. May be you should talk less for a while and the matter will automatically get over. I am sure it will 😊

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Bhavanab

@Bhavanab

Stunner

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Posted: 13 years ago

#267

Due Date on HBO ... :D ...
Robert Downey Jr. .. 😍 ❤️

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Daydreaming

@Daydreaming

Dazzler

Posted: 13 years ago

#268

Originally posted by: visrom

Yeah...you are right. but sometimes, you want to make it work...like before...when you used to talk about anything under the sun...when the same person changes so much it becomes tough to accept.

I don't know what happens with her and others...but I know that I don't have this problem with anyone barring her (and may be one more person), so it's not like I lack relationship skills. I am satisfying myself with this...and moving on. Anyday she wishes to talk, I am open to it.

But I just feel...😭😭😭

Hey come on! Dont feel 😭
When you were so good friends in past, you can talk to her. Make her realise that you want it like it was before. Try to discuss what has gone wrong. When she'll see that you are willing to make things better, she will also make some effort. And even if she doesnt, you'll not feel guilty for not trying to sort things out. You'll be convinced that you had tried your best but it didnt work.

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SAGNIKA

@Shagnika

Rocker

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Posted: 13 years ago

#269

Have a party to attend tonight ! I hope I am back before 10 !

I love this Snape-Lily siggy of mine ! I wish I could use the original gifs instead of this non animated one .. but thats crossing the word limit 😔

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astonish

@astonish

Sparkler

Posted: 13 years ago

#270

@Vis : you shuld first tell the person hat every discussion is ending with both of us unhappy and you wanna stop it... You want it not to go in that direction... tell her you are trying your best not to end up in an argument...Ask her straight forward...if she feels the same... If its an yes... Then you guys will automatically stop going against each other... And dont tell me its silly to tell something like this... Because it might be silly initially but you both will ROFL in future about that discussion

I did something like this... Though my situation was not of ending in argument... My situation was that we had suddenly stopped talking for days together though we were room mates