What was Radhika's fault? - Page 3

Excellent topic Moviessharma and great debate, to go against the forum and stick to your arguments....

Movissharma;Why Dev has conveyed to Vishakha on the wedding night itself that he wanted to marry someone else.

I was on Radhika's side up until I saw her pushing Dev towards Vishaka. Radhika knows that Vishaka and Dev don't love each other, she knows that both are unhappy and the most important fact is that they are not married! Radhika is doing wrong by those she loves, so while she is suffering so are those who she believes she is doing good for.

Originally posted by: movissharma

Thanks Razor12 for your kind reply !<br><br>
I would like to discuss the first point<br>
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' But, from there she noticed both Dev and Vishaka how....................... '<br>
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yes I agree that she knew about the disparity between Dev and Vishakha but she wanted to patch up as a well wisher.<br>
She had been robbed on the same day when she left behind and Vishakha had been gone along with Dev as Dev's bride.Now at this point what else she can do? Just patching and mending only remains at this point.<br>
Radhika been trapped in to the web of sins which has not been created by Radhika.<br>
Radhika knows that no one will marry Vishakha If Dev leaves Vishakha. <br><br>
Its true that Vishakha comes first than Dev in her priory list
Its quite hard to tackle Dev and his innocent love.I would like to give an example over here, suppose someone following you and you don't want him to follow then you simply ask him stop following , that means in one way or other you are trying to manipulate his decision, though you don not have any right over his decision.Radhika case is quite similar to this one.<br>
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now third point<br>
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' One can sacrifice only so much and sacrificing for the undeserving............. '<br>
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As a typical Indian girl she is hoping that one day everything will be fine and Dev will except Vishakha <br>
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and they'll lead a happy married life and she(Radhika) doesn't give a damn about her life. <br>

Originally posted by: SMittal

If there is nothing wrong with constant lying.....................then indeed Radhika is innocent.......................great...........Mother India!!!!

Alright, on positive note...............................even if lying is covered up with sacrificing attitude.................................is hiding the truth conveniently............acceptable ?

She is weak and vulnerable to the point of an orphan and being used by amma ......not to stand for truth!

Simultaneously she is strong as iron when it comes to ruin her life, love, marriage and leave the house that she thinks she is obliged to and owes everything to her so-called family ....................to stand for fake marriage and its prestige!!!

She is extremely pious to the extent that she can lie ...................not to one but all.............. except wicked mother and grandmother!

She trusts in God so much that she can convince Him to make up for all betrayal she is doing to herself, father and Dev!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Above all, Radhika is great...............................a person who thinks for good for all............in the name of selfish sacrificing!

Oh!is she Selfish?.........so what if she doesn't think for anyone except "meri behen , mera parivar"..................she never says.............." mera pati, mere pita....."

Originally posted by: aviation-ca

Excellent topic Moviessharma and great debate, to go against the forum and stick to your arguments....

Contratry to your assertion, Dev has mentioned to his mom as someone mentioned that Vish is not the girl he wanted to marry, in the backyard rain sequence...

He was on the verge of revealing all multi number of times,

1. just before Dadi's heart attack... I am sure he would have said it in spite of it, if Rads hadn't told him she is getting married....

2. After knowing Rads love on Vat Sativitri day, again foiled by Rads & Vivek

3. Again after he knows the truth about Rads getting thrown out, again foiled by Rads running away...

I would agree with you that through life, yes people have loved someone and are happily married to someone else... but this takes both parties, if Vish wasn't playing games, they would have settled down, remember Dev did try before knowing the wise sis-in-law is actually his love, but Vish spurned him....

My only beef with Rads character is until she came to Delhi, things were beyond her control, before that maybe she could be excused thinking Vish will accept her marriage, but after everything, to say I am doing all the poojas for my husband's hapiness knowing full well that he is not content but extremely unhappy with Vish, it makes no sense for any functioning human to continue in this chosen path....

Originally posted by: ShabnamSahebi

Its not her fault, its just that she has done so much for her sister, she is so selfless, she does not think about what Vishaka and Dev want (which is definitely not each other). She just thinks about what Amma and her mom want and that they stay happy, and that will make everyone happy.... blah, blah, blah.....

Originally posted by: frndrk

Movissharma;Why Dev has conveyed to Vishakha on the wedding night itself that he wanted to marry someone else.