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Posted: 14 years ago
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Some have talked about this as a sacrifice on Dev's part regarding giving up Radhika. It is not a sacrifice to me but need for self-glory. As Misti wrote, the prophecy was not about a particular person but CB who is Rohan's wife in family's eyes. They should show Dev thinking about it once the initial shock wears off. In any case, it doesn't matter if Radhika loves him or not. Regardless, he has no right to try to distribute Radhika like an object. What Radhika wants matters. If Radhika wants to marry Rohan, it has to be her decision and not an emotional blackmail from Dev that leads her to it. I have big objections to that. It is same as what Radhika did in CB1.

Initially, she was not party to it and others did it. But later on when she came to know that Dev had never accepted Vishaka and for that matter Vishaka was only interested in her career, she still forced him to accept Vishaka by emotionally blackmailing him even though it was Vishaka who had run away. When Dev refused that one time, she left for Ashram but not before writing a letter full of emotional blackmail to Dev. It was her life, so she had a right to leave home or not accept Dev. But writing that letter was terribly wrong on her part where she made it sound as if Dev's rejection of Vishaka was responsible for her running away. Then when the proposal of Dev's marriage came, she made him go to Mumbai to ask Vishaka to come back for one last time. So Vishaka had no objection to coming back, then Dev was supposed to accept Vishaka without any problem. Then they never showed any remorse on Radhika's part or a realization that she had made mistakes.

So far they have not shown Dev doing any of this. Right now he just accepted that Radhika is going to marry Rohan. But I am almost sure that once Radhika figures out that Dev is her husband and she is about to be married to Rohan and tries to tell Dev the truth, Dev would brush her objections (interrupt her before she could tell him about the marriage) and tell her to marry Rohan. If that happens, they would also be regressing his character. The precap irritated me. He has right to talk about Radhika that way but not to Rohan. They could have shown him doing that in the privacy of his room or in front of the murti where he is heart broken and telling Radhika's murti all the things he couldn't tell her or anybody else.
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Posted: 14 years ago
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Radhika and Dev feels a connection towards each other which implies a spiritual relationship and an initial attraction to me. Dev would fall in love with Radhika properly once he gets to know her and finds out that she and he share a bond as they are both outsiders or that she is kind-hearted or has qualities that attract him. Same for Radhika. She doesn't know anything about Dev; But once she sees his protectiveness, his kindness or whatever then to me they would fall in love with each other and also would fight for one another.

In CB1, Dev always proclaimed his love for Radhika. But she was still not sure of anything.
Then she saw him standing up for her rights to worship freely and got to know his progressive views. That's when her real feelings towards him started. They had a nice scene where he keeps the car of his door open for her so that she could travel to phool bangla with him. She first decides to go to another car as she doesn't want others to gossip but then suddenly stops and goes back to Dev's car without caring for anybody's opinion. That to me seemed the moment where she started to fall for Dev in a true sense and not in a "attraction" sense. Later on her confidence in their relationship came during that engagement phase where he did a kshma vrat, put that medicine on her hands or decided to let go of his desire for a lavish wedding by understanding that it was not in her father's means to do that kind of wedding.

I hope they show it here. But probably Dev would need it here as he is the one who is not confident about the relationship. Radhika has lived for it for 12 years and so would be committed to it as soon as she finds out that Dev is her husband (not that I want that kind of scenario and would rather have Radhika come to the realization without knowing that Dev is her childhood husband and thus moving herself away from a ritualistic world).

But for now, both of them have a concept of a perfect relationship or a perfect partner but it is more an image than the reality.

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Posted: 14 years ago
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misti ... loved the song for daima ... enjoyed reading all the comments in this thread

liked both dev's display of sadness and rad's happiness at the idea of finding out who KK is ... i thought dev's smiling through his tears was nicely done today

More than the episode wanted to talk abt how they are going with this track
- havent seen the precap but precaps are always meant to provoke ... so i am hoping dev is talking abt his dream girl and not rohan's to be wife
- he overhears rohan saying that he will be a good husband ... that should be the reason he backs out... also since rads has given him no indication that she likes him, he can assume that she prefers rohan to him
- dont want him to either "sell" rads to rohan or rohan to rads ... even if he believes rohan will be a good hubby ... he does not need to go to that extreme
- in dev's case it is definitely infatuation but he truly believes that she is the only one for him and completes him ... so for a person who has no one really close to him, it is shattering to find out that you cannot have that person ... it definitely is not love at this stage though
- it will be nice if they do not rush but show rads slowly growing closer to dev ... and after knowing that her kk is rohan, questioning it ...
- will something that happens over the next few days make dev lose faith in rohan, etc and even in rads??

Longer term ... it does not make sense to have a marriage so early on in the show ... whether is radev or rads and rohan ....
Also, it also does not make sense for them to have a couple who totally trust and believe in each other right from the get go
For the story to stretch, they have to show a different characterization of Dev from the trusting guy they have shown this far ... i am hoping i get the abhay that i was hoping for and not the abhay they showed us

i know that some of us want rads to find out dev is KK, for them to be happily married, but it is still early ...they can stretch those things and they need to show emotional conflict and misunderstandings between rads and dev ... and show them resolving it over a period of time ..


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Posted: 14 years ago
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Why ... if Rads finds out that her KK is Rohan, she is going to agree to marry him ... She has been fixated on that for the past 12 years and believes what the pandit told her. It is going to take tremendous soul searching on her part to find out that she likes someone who may not be her KK

Dev could be thinking that since he told her family that he was not the groom, that she would know too. Also, he does not know that Rads was not informed that the marriage was not for her ... whether or not she is interested in rohan is not a call for him to make ... however, if he feels rohan is not right for rads, he should tell her


Definitely dont want Dev behaving like Rads did last time craving PFs ... but i would prefer that they show some emotional drama between rads and dev ... and that cannot happen if they have blind trust and faith in one another and are able to forgive each other easily ... otherwise it is a happily ever after scenario with just some villians in the middle and artificial scenarios created to separate the two

Dev has severe emotional baggage that he is carrying from being treated badly all these years... he should have a lot of insecurities and typically that comes out when a person like this is dealing with someonehe believes he loves madly
Rads had a better life bcos of her dad and the strength his support gave her ... so she may end up being the stronger or more secure one in the relationship ...




Edited by rajsri - 14 years ago
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Posted: 14 years ago
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why3 ... dev does not know that rads was not informed abt her being the bride ... he must think that she knows that the proposal came for her ... also, he has always played second fiddle to rohan ... so why would be assume that he is better than rohan for any woman, leave alone rads??

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Posted: 14 years ago
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Here i think its not something to do with being second fiddle....If he loves Radhika , accepted its one side, even than Dev ,s priority would be Radhika,s happiness, because of that he may step back....As seen the today,s promo, in Angie,s words going to be reversal of CB1 and i also agree with her....In the starting PH has given indications of going this soap Pardes way, .It depends how the different treatment is given to the story...As has been observed from childhood episode,Dev becomes quite defensive if somebody take his thing.....here what will be his reaction when Dev Radhika,s friendship turns to love, ok not in to love for the time being, what will be his reaction if he comes to know about the exploitation of Radhika...
Edited by neerjashingla - 14 years ago

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