Choose Sanz's Best Onscreen Husband - Page 5

Originally posted by: ght_sajan

tell me abt it...the issues which needed attention were all pushed under the rug ...forget arnav not giving khushi the respect that was due, even the one time he's apologizing she brushes it off as nothing...a stark contrast to the scene in humsafar where khirad stood her ground... .i did watch chanchan sonya but in portions...i know i am being harsh but i will always begrudge this show of one thing., felt awful when she was on screen & i would still miss her ...i am not too fond of anuj as an actor he is decent no doubt at what he does but i never saw that spark...i didn't like sanaya's performance either in chachan which is a first for me having loved everything she's done so far...i thought it would be an author backed role with a lot of promise but the writers just didn't bring out the right essence..had this been anything like rekha's khubsoorat ❤️ i would have loved it unfortunately it wasn't

Arnav and i love manav too:)

Manav ❤️

i think samrat he treated her like a princess...😊

lovely catching up with u sonya 🤗...u're so hard pressed for time and u kept replying ❤️ and i just wouldn't stop ...now that's the thing humsafar does to me 😆😆

May be samrat or Manav,, But nvr ASR,,,,
I still get scared to think the way he treated Khushi,,, I just wish no one gets to marry a man like ASR,,, He nvr felt sorry for his deeds,,, n evn after getting facts correct,, he was all in for forcing Khushi to give in,, he nvr gave her tht required space... Moreover i guess Khushi was more at fault,, She nvr stood up for her self respect n dignity,,,, i would say i nvr liked both the characters ,, they were larger than life,,, not evn a single trace of reality in them,,,

Lol i know that this isnt the place to talk abt all this,,, but plz bear with me,,

You know, Sonya. All three were different stories. Sanaya's characters in all 3 shows was different. So you can't compare who was better. Because Samrat was really young, he was just a kid,and even with a 3 year leap, he was still only 25-26. Guys that age aren't very mature. Arnav had baggage that no man should have to carry. He cam with his own demons, and he was nothing like the cheating self-obsessed man from Sheher-e-Zaat. I was really disappointed when Mahira(can't remember her name in the show) went back to him. In the original novel, she divorces him and lives happily ever after. Arnav was self-confident in his professional life, but he was extremely vulnerable about his personal relationship and had trust issues. So there you have a point, as much as we may love his Darcy-ish character, it would be difficult to live with. Manav is a happy go lucky person . No personal issues ,ideal home life, pampered son, absolutely no baggage. But if you see the recent episodes, you realize that he is a little insensitive. Esp at the beginning of the Rupali track. Remember? Now to come to your question, on-screen, I love Arnav and Khushi's love story, but in reality I'd need therapy if that happened to me. Samrat is too much of a kid, and at times, so is Manav. Plus Manav comes with a crazy family. So if you were asking me, my answer would be none.

I just went back and saw all the discussion on Ashar-Khirad. They were the best. And you guys have a point, Pakistani shows have women with self-respect, strength, and the absolute lack of any neediness for a man. No matter how much they love him, they see all his flaws and call him out on them . You see it in Humsafar, in Meri Zaat Zaara-e-Benishan, in Daam, in Shehr-E-Zat, and recently in Kankar .No running back willingly into his arms. I wish Indian TV would evolve enough to show strong women. Our "strong" women are the ones who deal with stupid MILs, evil plotting in-laws, jealous step-siblings and husband-stealing crazies.