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Hello Folks.
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So you already know the topic. Let's now look back in retrospect ...
1. Samrat Shergill
Caring. Passionate. Loving. Romantic. But we never saw a very mature side of Samrat. His friends were the center of his life and he messed up his personal relationships. As a friend, he was very loyal to Gunjan but never saw the love she nurtured for him. Given his age and upbringing, Samrat was kind of innocent and naive. He was the guy you could never blame or hate for his lack of awareness. However, it also meant that you could never stand in awe of him. [Note: I understand that in all fairness we did not see Samrat playing the role of a husband. But in the second part of the show he was a grownup man and you could imagine that he'd remain the same as a husband].
2. Arnav Singh Raizada
Professionally successful. Devoted. Caring. Passionate. Self-Confident. High self-esteem. Possessive. Some sort of an autocrat. Obsessive. Control freak. Perfectionist. ASR carried a personality that would make him a prince charming in your fantasy but a nightmare in your practical life. You could fall head over heels for him in your dreams but take him as an unfortunate mishap in your daily life. If anyone has watched the Pakistani show Shehr-E-Zaat, you'd know the kind of disappointment a girl is likely to face if she marries a larger than life person like ASR. The girl who has become obsessive with the handsome and reserved guy in the show compares him to a sea and thus describes him as "mysterious and profound." But her best friend corrects her by saying that he is indeed "mysterious but not profound."
3. Manav Borisagar
Loving. Romantic. Supportive. Passionate. Faithful. Trustworthy. Mature. Humble. Intelligent. Understanding. Caring. Manav is the guy who keeps his feet on the ground. ChanChan is the center of his world and he realizes his limitations as a human. Never hesitates to communicate every time he has a thought that troubles him. Has no reservations when it comes to placing his faith in his wife. Another praiseworthy characteristic of Manav is that he has minimal ego. These qualities make the presence of your husband in your life an experience of bliss.
To steal a line from my favorite Indian show KavyAnjali: A guy deserves to become a husband the day he realizes that his girl does not need him as a supportive pillar in her life but rather as a true companion in her journey. In this case the two become equal in their relationship because the girl will no longer be perceived as the one who always needs her husband to come to her rescue - the weaker one in other words.
Keeping these considerations in mind, my vote goes to:
This is not a well-thought out post so don't be surprised if you come across points that are not well-developed. Feel free to add and subtract, agree or disagree. Debates are welcome, bashing is not. For those who may be emotionally-driven, please remember to separate the actors from the characters.
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Probably the best way to answer this question is which out of the above three would you want as a husband for yourself?
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