Originally posted by: asmi_joya
I came across a post on twitter, by a woman...who was talking about how a calm, composed happy and good man like Virat was pushed over the age that he turned into irritated, frustrated, indifferent and so bitter that it made him the man he is today...So It drops down to Sai made him the manor rather the demon he is today.. Its just that girl Sai who made him this man.... And these are women who are talking about it. 👏👏
Just recently I talked about how a couple when was having their marriage counselled, told the counsellor that the other person brings the worst out of him/her and the counsellor mentioned, how its not the case.. Its the inner you that remains hidden till things are under your control and has nothing to do with the third person. Its completely you brings out the worst in yourself , when things are not as per your convenience. One cannot blame it on someone else, when you cant conduct your frustrations, dislike towards a situation. in that case even killing a person can be justified, since the other person drove you there.
One thing I agree is if a person is bringing the worst out of you and you believe this to be true then you should realize that person is not for you and move on.
But in this case Virat being indifferent was ok, but his domestic abuse, teaming up with his ex to insult her cannot be put on Sai. He has learned that from his family and especially Ninad. He might not be a Ninand but he definitely imbibes his qualities of insulting your spouse infront of others.
If this is the argument, why cant Sai be defended with the same reasoning. Virat was the one who fed all that crap into her head about Vaada, deal etc etc. She was just keeping her side of the bargain and he made her say those things during the anniversary trip which started this whole domino effect.
But, I guess audience who are neutral realize that Sai was at fault during the anniversary trip and Virat is at fault from right after the t shirt incident happened.
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