Originally posted by: fria319
You know, I don't even think its bc of all that. Bc despite liking Pallavi a lot, I felt a lot of these things you mentioned above, during the initial stages of the Mandar track. I'll be 100% honest about it. In that beginning part of the Mandar track, it really felt like she was bulldozing over everyone to do what only she thought was right, and was taking advantage of RR + Rao family's patience and good will. please dont throw any chappals at me yet LOL......
HOWEVER, I think she unintentionally did everything she did and I think that's a huge difference between those who cut Pallavi slack and can move on vs those who are still stuck on what she did wrong. I don't feel what I felt about Pallavi earlier in this track. I've moved on and even understood how she got lost in all this.
I think a lot of audience members are like she knowingly made the decisions she did (which I do agree with) and therefore they equate that to intentional action = intentional disregard of her husband & in laws (the part I don't agree with). And I think that's why they can't let go & move on.
I also think they just want the FL to always be about the ML and nothing else. Like past FLs in ITV have been. They want her to be the doormat in the relationship, and not Raghav. And I don't mean doormat in a derogatory or mean way. But in a lot of relationships, it's seldom always an equal balance. And that's ok to show. I'm perfectly ok with Raghav being the more "willing to back off" partner. With the way their relationship started, and considering how new it still is, it makes total sense why he lets her take on the reigns of their relationship. But people who crib against Pallavi so much are the same people who can't stand to see a man be the one who backs down in a relationship. They can't handle the woman being the more dominant person in the relationship.
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