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Posted: 7 years ago
Why are u guys surprised abt Donna and Harvey
I felt it was sort of obvious that she loved him
Infact I sort of lost interest in their story coz it was stretched too long
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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: Ecrivain.



I'm not married,no intention to give up the freedom yet 🤣 as for experience I'm the big didi with lots of younger cousins all married and with kids 😉 I like to observe these people!

Makers feelings for ipk:I see it as ipk was adopted baby, adopting is no joke hence boss claims rights over using things from the adopted when they're nurturing the younger babies. QH,IB and all the others are their own khoon 😳
I didn't know people used to watch the show like that!! Some magic ASR and KKG have. So Wahi is a writer Dogra director then there's lots of actors in the pack of wolves! But I wish he came on tv soon. Not WS proper tv show.

Rkc: I saw the promo, whitewashing Satrupa is never going to happen. Satrupa can whitewash herself with all the paint in the world but her daughter won't let her get away with it. 😆 I hope they continue to write the characters as grey. No turning anyone into Sabun land perfect human.
Is it because this is settling down week that the pace has slowed down like really slow?

TRPs is one thing that I can never figure out. All the shows that I have watched have all been ones in the bottom of the charts 😆 I think ipk did well with BV as the rival show. There must be something right about the system otherwise the GECs and the makers won't go for this method right?



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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: SoreThumb

Why are u guys surprised abt Donna and Harvey

I felt it was sort of obvious that she loved him
Infact I sort of lost interest in their story coz it was stretched too long



Now I'm on season3 this season it's a bit more obvious but then Harvey is so indifferent to her and she's busy patching up Scottie and Harvey
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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: Ecrivain.


Golden words, Soupster

Your maun vrat is over? 😆

You are right, every individual and every relationship cannot be measured with the same yardstick cos there is no parameter devised to measure feelings to begin with.

Like I said, different people feel differently, but I would like to know one case of infidelity that is legit in terms of why a person cheated, unless the spouse/ partner is physically or mentally handicapped.

And Soup, I doubt even teenagers can be bulldozed into relationships, let alone grow adults 😆 Those days are actually gone.


I am sorry, but I actually had to skip 2 days ka discussion, caught up with the last 3 pages.
Both you and Benna talked about how people can't be bulldozed.

I agree the times are changing, but the amount of emotional insecurity that pushes people into relationships...either to prove oneself wanted or worthy..or actual suicide blackmail by the partner...I'm talking about love marriages. Was catching up on some juniors, these kids got divorced within five years. I am talking about more than one couple, who met and fell in love in professional college.

Seriously! How many couples who survive, do actually communicate with each other? How many people are actually in love that is not selfseeking?
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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: Dreamer-89



Now I'm on season3 this season it's a bit more obvious but then Harvey is so indifferent to her and she's busy patching up Scottie and Harvey


Yeah so they stretched the whole dynamics thing like a chewing gum
And it got sort of annoying


What RKC promo
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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: Ecrivain.

On a lighter note, did anyone see the new promo of RKC?



Its the case of Satrupa speaking to her alter ego. There is a discussion on how and why she gave up Anami which she has with her mirror refection.


You know, as much as I am excited for this track and intrigued too, I am a tad bit disappointed cos looks like they are turning Satrupa white. They are clearly looking at redeeming Satrupa for obvious reasons.

I am not saying this approach is bad or anything, they eventually need the positives and the numbers to sustain, but I hope and I am sure, they do with finesse and convqnginly 😃


Oh if they do go this route..imo it is disappointing
As whitewashing Satrupa is one thing I have always been against.it takes away so much from the Story and dynamics
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Posted: 7 years ago
#ITSCONTROVERSIAL

Dear Twinkle Khanna, Shut the F*** up and stop taking a dump on my religion, PUBLICLY

  • HOLY COW
  • OCTOBER 10, 2017

High time you shut your fortunate mouth and keep your deranged logics from my religion and my culture. You may think of yourself as a groundbreaking author on account of your high profile contacts but allow me to burst the bubble for you you ain't $h*t. There, I said it. You were an unsuccessful actress and failed miserably at being a wife too. If you were at all the strong woman you project yourself to be, you would have left Akshay Kumar way back you didn't, because you are weak and are bereft of any self-respect. You knew you would only be in news as long as you are Mrs. Akshay Kumar and hence you held on to the man who slapped you with a very public adultery.

You, in the guise of feminism, want to dissuade me from Karwachauth why don't you talk your old hag of a mother, battling her post menopause depression by sabotaging another woman's home, out of this extra marital affair instead. If I saw picture of my mother, flirting with a married man at 60, I'd hang my head in shame. But my mother is busy preparing for her Karwachauth, grateful for her blissful matrimony, a thing that bestowed neither upon you nor your mother. Again, I do not blame you for taking that huge dump on Karwachauth, for I know you don't know the first thing about family and the myriad emotions it entails. Didn't your father abandon your mother for Tina Munim and then choose to spend the remainder of his life with a different woman? Wasn't your mother playing peek-a-boo with Sunny Deol when you and your sister were younger? Damn, even your husband cheats on you with Priyanka Chopra, who, I have to be honest, is not one bit prettier than you. Clearly, you are clueless of how a functional family works, the traditions it revers and the values it holds close to heart.

But I love how you try your best to be a woman's woman the empowered kind. But why this lopsided love only for the Hindu women, Twinkle? Why not show some support for my Muslim sisters too, my Muslim sisters who are not allowed to fashion their hair or visit the beauty parlor, my Muslim sisters who have had their c***oris chopped off, my Muslim sisters who don't get to walk the street in an outfit of their choice and get a hijab draped around their heads at the age of three, my Muslims sisters who had to share their husbands with three other wives, my Muslim sisters who are sold like cattle to rich sheikhs thrice their age in Hyderabad why no love, no support, no outrage, no nothing for them, Mrs. Funnybones? Oh, is it because it's religious and off limits? And squatting over Hinduism every now and then and smearing our rituals with your verbal diarrhea is progressive?

While we are at it, let me brush up on another tangent. Remember how you took a dig at Yogi Adityanath's Anti-Romeo Squad initiative? Let me tell you, you privileged princess living a life miles away from reality I, as an ordinary woman living in regular India, approve of that initiative. As a college student, I couldn't walk to the bus stop without my brother or father accompanying me on account of gangs of "romeos hanging about the Pan Shops by the lanes of our regular neighborhood. You have never walked those streets you wouldn't know, you ignorant, far-from-ground-reality, entitled Bollywood elite! Didn't your husband make a video on the Bangalore Mass Molestation last year? I am guessing you don't know much about that either. Sharing life with your husband is a little different from sharing on twitter what he did when he forgot the anniversary.

Yes, Karwachauth doesn't add to a mortal's life but it brings that little yet much needed glitter in the dull lives of a regular middle class woman. She doesn't get invited to red carpet events, so Karwachauth allows her to reach for those forgotten jewelries and get dolled up like a bride again. And ask your good friend Karan Johar, how a Karwachauth sequence contributes to his oh-so-typical movies. #BoleyChuriyaBoleKangana

Anyway, I know you don't have the guts to call out social evils that are screaming for help, go back to your palace and author another good for nothing book.

Yours not-so-sincerely

Regular Indian Woman, from regular neighborhood

  • Holy Cow!
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Posted: 7 years ago
Twinkle Khanna's sarcastic take on Karva Chauth leaves Twitterati in a ...

So apparently Ms. Funnubones takes twitter by storm when she tweets about Karwachauth and an apparent regular Indian woman slams her shut.

I think, twitter is the most abused platform by far.

That said, I think sometimes sarcasm should be treated just as sarcasm and while we do get 'sarcastic' there is a need to know where to draw the line and when. The leading columnist and author, has been trolled earlier as well, but this one takes the cake for slapping her with some notions that she had unknowingly condoned.



@Bhavi, G, Soup, Benna, SoreT.. I wanna read back your views on this brewing controversy.




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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: Dreamer-89



The bulldozed part : the only person who can be bulldozed in this century to do something against their will are robots 😆 but if you're talking about an abusive relationship that's different but in such cases the victim will hardly be in a frame of mind to even fight for themselves, seeking a relationship outside of the abusive one is an impossible thing.

As much as I'm for marriage forever I'm against women tolerating an abusing relationship for the sake of children or because they're too afraid about how they'll be once they cut off the parasitic relationship. This is where the parents the extended family and society stand up for such people not isolate them.


Benna

@bold I am assuming you meant the society needs to lend the support. I agree, wholeheartedly at that, and its changing too, the mentality but the society still has a long way to go wrt the west.

Case in point, divorces, extra-marital affairs or infidelity is often condoned to the high strata. The other people are told to stick to the spouses and the abuse- physical, mental or sexual, is often brushed off as a 'norm' or 'we had it worse and you are lucky'. And guess what, its often the mothers who pass on the legacy of such fabulous treasure trove of knowledge to young impressionable girls.

Absolutely abhorrent as to how things work and how they seem to be. From their birth onwards, women are treated as the weaker sex or objects of desire, and its high that notion is dumped.
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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: Dreamer-89



G that's heartbreaking, All their lives the two parties can try to find reasons to justify each one's actions but reality is nothing will restore the time lost the relationships that were hurt and broken. Unlike the west where the marriage/divorce is between two individuals our culture not just the couple the parents grandparents and every other relative have a say in things. Which is so annoying but that's how we function. Marriage is no joke rushing into it to please a section of society or a particular group In the long term will only be a burden on the couple like your cousin went through. Standing up against the majority is no joke it can be painful but I think one can sleep better at night if a person follows his heart than bow down to an opinion for the sake of it. But not everyone is strong and capable of standing in the minority and walking ahead specially in a culture like ours.
In our culture marriage is like one of The criterias that determines a woman is ideal or complete. Parents get the responsible parent appreciation certificate if they marry off their kids within the so called 'marriageable age'. It's really funny and annoying seeing the way marriage is understood by people around!!

You're team Harvey 🤗 Donna and Harvey together 😲 goodness that'll be 😆


@bold Woman you take a bow for wording this so well.

It takes a lot more than just guts and notions to stand up am fight the odds Not endorsing any one' s actions here but I think it was everyone 's fault to an extent, that led to the mess.

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