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Posted: 8 years ago
Okay free time is over . Very hot here , you all take care and see you soon 🤗.🤗
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: Heema22

All of you asked me about my patient who committed suicide .

I have to follow Hippa regulations.
In brief . This was young lady with two kids , happily married .
She had car accident. Bad head on collision. She was driver , one of her kid was killed .
Her accident resulted in head trauma followed by memory loss .
For long time she did not recognise her family or parents ,
Long treatment and lot of hard work she recovered .
At that time I was very active in " memory impairment "research .
She was my patient ,.
I had invested lots of hours got to know her family and emotionally very close to her .
She was becoming very dependent on me and I had to cut ties .
she was not my patient so under US law I was not supposed to keep in touch .
She was funtioning well . I was getting Emails from her .
But her relationship with her husband never got better . He blamed her child's death ..
She wanted to have another child but she couldn't . She never recover from this .. I suspect she went in depression never seek for help and she ended her life .


di are u a psychiatrist or psychologist??
It is really scary seeing what all the things you deal with... I would have gone into depression if my patient would have done that.. I am such a weak girl :(
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: Heema22

Attempted see few shows but they were useless . I think I stuck out with HD because of Devibhatt . They were fun . That will never happen again unless SV and Di is back together 😛
Now I don't have time , taping Peshawa bajirao . Really good ,! Very realist , very little dramatization.no time for fun


Even i got a push due to bhakts bhajans... It was fun there.. I didnt get same environment anywhere 😆
Didi came in other shows but they were waste... Never got interest after HD
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Posted: 8 years ago
If possible please watch Nach Baliye... I find Mohit and Sanaya really genuine and hard working.. They are like couple goal.. We usually love stories portrayed by these actors onscreen... but these two are kind of people who are equally adorable off screen <3
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: AllThingsNice



You have relatives in Coorg?? I am SO jealous!

Quite a few years ago, my family had also planned a trip to Mantralaya...the Swami Raghavendra Math. But there were some floods and it was very difficult to reach Mantralaya.

Tungabhadra, right? I think the river was in spate, if I remember correctly.


Haan di.. My aunt was got married to Madikeri... So she is from there...

Floods was there uh... dont remember di...We ae going in july there.. Booked rail tickets too..😃 Yup temple is der near tungabhadra river... U shd plan once 😊
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: Heema22


This is really sad di 😕

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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: Heema22

Shwetha , my sister started with then in US and later for one year they asked for transfer to Mumbai office in Pawai . They were not happy in India . Long hours of work is reality in any American company but they pay well no they treat their employees with respect . Benefits are good and working conditions are great .

Now they no longer work for company . Both of them still work for long hours we never get to see each other .


Acchaa.. shd see hw it will be here
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: -Shwetha-


Haan di.. My aunt was got married to Madikeri... So she is from there...

Floods was there uh... dont remember di...We ae going in july there.. Booked rail tickets too..😃 Yup temple is der near tungabhadra river... U shd plan once 😊


Yes my dear, there were floods. I remember very well because we were all set to go. We had started making plans, but luckily, had not made any bookings. It was in 2009. Here, see this:

Edited by AllThingsNice - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: Heema22


When she was hospitalized I talked to her husband several time but he was beyond counseling . He was upset over several facts . She pulled child from his arm to take him for shopping , kid did not want to go and he cried . Child was not in car seat , no seat belt and he was sitting on front passenger seat . I US this is illegal. Till child is 8 yrs old he must be in car seat . This was police case and he had to deal with it . So his lack of support is just . Do I agree ? No offcouse not . I think they had arranged marriage and love was missing it was need base marriage.
Very sad story .



His anger is perhaps just...I don't think his lack of support was just. It was an accident and extremely unfortunate.

Incidents like this make me wonder about relationships. Recently, many stories that I have heard make me wonder about 'family' in general. The way parents control children, the way egos play out etc make me wonder whether families are meant for support or for mental torture.

One guy I know has recently been laid off. He has two kids and a really stupid wife. Because of her, he has to live beyond his means. Don't ask me why he cannot be his own person. I don't know all that. But his wife has to imitate others' standard of living. His neighbour has a flashy car, so they must also have a flashy car. Her aunt has an expensive piece of jewellery, so she also has to have it. And so on.

Now that he has been laid off, there is mental torture. "You are sitting at home...how will it look for a man to live off his wife's salary?". Parents are not making it easier and in today's scenario, he is finding it extremely tough to find another job.

Depressing! I just hope he pulls through.
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Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: Pari117


it seems tough... channel has their own favs... I feel they are trying hard to make them win


Don't public votes count?

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