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Posted: 11 years ago
Pancholi's son hasnt done anything wrong per se. He was a douche bag, and didnt treat his GF very well. But that cant get you into the jail.

Jiah didnt get the support she deserved from her family.

All these suicides just bring back memory of my cousin's suicide 14 months ago. And recently a colleague at work took his life out of nowhere.

I wish people would be a little more open about seeking help and for saying it. We end up putting up this brave facade all the time, that we cant seem to accept that it is okay to be imperfect.
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: ebook-reader

Na. Thankfully my maa doesn't watch Bhalobasha.com. Thank god for small mercies. 🤣

But my maa watches Maa. 🤢 She herself doesn't know why she watches it. She grumbles throughout. She would do other things while the show is one, read the newspaper, make some tea for herself, anything but watch the show. TV ta bas cholte thakey. 😆 She does the same when she watches the Bahaa show.

Nowadays she is loving SNS and DABH. I tell her she won't have the opportunity to actually put those shrewd ideas of the MILs in action but she continues to watch them, relish them in fact and hates it when I interrupt her or if someone calls her during her favorite shows. 😆

Haan Nikhil guy is a wife beater. Heard he's a single dad too. This I heard in a public bus while commuting. 😆

I know about the lawyer guy. My maa told me about him.

Bhalobasha.com was quite a rage, ekhon kon state e I have no idea. I think the leads had deicided to quit. I saw the poster of the lead guy in one B grade Bengali movie.


Thank goodness your mom has saved herself from the torture that is Bhalobasha.com - it's definitely one of those so bad it's good shows - my aunts and cousins and I used to love watching it together just to laugh over how awesomely bad it was. One day the kids are in 12th standard, the next day the parents are forcing them to get married - yep totally believable!

I think every person who watches Maa now does so because it's become a habit like brushing your teeth - sure you don't really enjoy it, but you do it anyway because that's what you've always done. When, when will that show end????

Your mom is probably getting vicarious pleasure through those scheming m-i-ls! 😆. I guess it's the same for my mom.

I must say I'm shocked with news about this Nikhil dude - had no idea. I don't think the lead of B.com - Raja Goswami has quit - he did a Bgrade movie that sank without a trace so he's stuck with B.com.
The lead of Sasural Genda Phool's Hindi original is a DJ now I believe.


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Posted: 11 years ago

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I know. Apparently she has been carrying a lot of baggage. her 2nd husband had killed himself post his divorce from her.

Relationships & marriages are so muddled up these days.


Yep - I read about that - about how just like Tharoor this was her 3rd marriage as well. But she should have known what's coming. Tharoor left his 2nd wife to be with her - did she really think he wouldn't try to dump her as well?

I don't understand why these women are so delusional - they think that once a man is with them, he would be transformed by their love into an honest, loyal partner. Doesn't work that way. Winget baby, are you listening? 😆
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Posted: 11 years ago

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Onu he is an amazing talent and more than Sanaya I hope he gets his dues with this show. A few bigwigs in Twitterare taking notice of him.

Whatever Sanaya may be, but she never shies away from praising her co stars and she hasnt praised anyone as much as she praised Ashish.


He really is - very low key, but talented and lets his work speak for him. I'm so glad Sanaya has such warm praise for him - it's all richly deserved.
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Posted: 11 years ago
Swati what I dont get is why these people get married in the first place? Not everyone is capable of monogamy. So just accept it and dont marry anyone. Just have affairs.

That way at least Salman has my respect. he knows he can never settle down and doesnt make an attempt to after the Ash episode.

Now apparently RK wants to marry Kat. What a perfect marriage. He will continue to cheat after marriage and she will be his perfect doormat trophy wife. And she gets to keep his Kapoor surname.
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: Naach_Basanti

Pancholi's son hasnt done anything wrong per se. He was a douche bag, and didnt treat his GF very well. But that cant get you into the jail.

Jiah didnt get the support she deserved from her family.

All these suicides just bring back memory of my cousin's suicide 14 months ago. And recently a colleague at work took his life out of nowhere.

I wish people would be a little more open about seeking help and for saying it. We end up putting up this brave facade all the time, that we cant seem to accept that it is okay to be imperfect.


I completely agree with you. I was very uncomfortable with the way people were baying for his blood and calling for him to be thrown into prison. Yes, I know there are laws on abetment to suicide but where does one draw the line there. Jiah probably took her life because she was upset with him among other things but it's not like he tried to kill her by emotionally torturing her.


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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: Naach_Basanti

Swati what I dont get is why these people get married in the first place? Not everyone is capable of monogamy. So just accept it and dont marry anyone. Just have affairs.

That way at least Salman has my respect. he knows he can never settle down and doesnt make an attempt to after the Ash episode.

Now apparently RK wants to marry Kat. What a perfect marriage. He will continue to cheat after marriage and she will be his perfect doormat trophy wife. And she gets to keep his Kapoor surname.


Precisely - why commit to monogamy if you cannot follow through. Yes at least Salman is upfront about it. Not like Ajay who tries to maintain the facade of a happily married family man and then chases after anyone who moves.

RK wants to marry Kat? Really? I guess he's convinced that she's doormat enough to turn the blind eye to anything that he'd be upto. Basically he's found a replica of his mommy who put up with all the shit his father put her through. And of course he'll cheat - rumours are that he cheated with Anushka when they had gone to Canada for IIFA and she totally forgave him. She's messed up too.


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Posted: 11 years ago
Kripa, maybe he didn't but one must not overlook the emotional trauma. It was the emotional trauma that actually led her to take her own life. I won't/ can't forgive a man for putting her through so much of pain and heartache. People take these things very lightly, falling in and out of love but not everyone takes them casually and when such a relationship fails, it causes a lot of emotional trauma. And this is a very difficult time. Suicidal thoughts do enter your mind no matter how strong and rational a person you had been. Its very depressing to say the least.

There is a lot of stigma attached to people seeking professional help. So we try to keep up a brave front and pretend we can deal with the situation.

@Swati: Maa is all about romance now. Jhilik is embroiled in a love triangle. BTW, have you seen her recently? She has gained a LOT of weight. Aloor bosta comment was so funny yet so true. 😆 Also we didn't have the calendar shoot. She's DHEBSHI.
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Posted: 11 years ago
That is true Onu. years ago my cousin was having issues with settling in at a Uni abroad and he didn't clear his papers 3 times in a row.he was undergoing a lot of emotional stress as he was a top performer at school. So my aunt took him to see a therapist and the way the people outside the family gossiped about it for day showed the general lack of awareness.

The other issue I have is how we brand anyone with psychological issues as being 'Mental.' Another cousin with an autistic daughter who lives in the US, refuses to visit India for the same reason.
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Posted: 11 years ago

Originally posted by: ebook-reader


@Swati: Maa is all about romance now. Jhilik is embroiled in a love triangle. BTW, have you seen her recently? She has gained a LOT of weight. Aloor bosta comment was so funny yet so true. 😆 Also we didn't have the calendar shoot. She's DHEBSHI.


Jhilik in a love triangle? Rofl! 😆 Is she Rabba veying with two guys at the same time? Or is one a stalker like Shyam? She always looked like she'd gain weight pretty rapidly. Yeah - they decided the calendar shoot would be really stretching the limits of credibility. And the saree they gave her - why any man would be fascinated with a woman wearing that plain ol' saree I have no idea.


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