Originally posted by: wuthering
Aaah, I think we are running around in circles here...😆I guess we have a different view point with respect to Gaus actions on the said instances so lets agree to disagree...
Where you think her behavior on that night of her fight with Armaan was right, I felt it could be handled better. Of course, it is Gauhars nature so I learnt it later that thats just who she is. As Shruti brilliantly pointed out above, as a viewer I could UNDERSTAND where she is coming from but as a HM I would understand why the rest seemed to be so anti her for the most part. Even when the issue first started. When Armaan claimed him dropping the food was an honest mistake (lie or no lie) she kept repeating this over and over again- even later when she came out to talk to him alone. Yes, none of her so called team members stood up for her- but thats exactly the point! Barely a day or two in this new house, nobody was interested in picking fights/ sides/ confrontations and she was singled out. Thats exactly what I meant that you tend to alienate people when you fight for yourself so much. Though yes, its the right thing to do...but in a house like that, it didnt hurt to make friends either. I HONESTLY feel that had it not been for Kushal, Gau would have been alone in that house, for the most part...She has not walked out with any REAL FRIENDS of her own...except maybe Sophia ...😆
That WKW episode is something Id rather erase from my memory...😆I applauded the girl no doubt for sticking up for her man like that, and I still commend her for that...but point is, neither of them graciously accepted the fact that what Kush said was INDEED WRONG. Again, Tanis actions are not the point here. Im not her fan so I dont care about what she does. I care about those 2 so whether they realize their mistake, matters to me. Same with the Andy violence episode. I dont think either of them felt TRULY apologetic for how that entire bit came across. Again, Andys actions are unquestionable. That was the episode which turned me from an Andy fan to an Andy disliker (hate is too strong a word for me)...but Kush DID come across as violent in that bit...what with his repeated threats et al...Neither of them seemed apologetic about THAT either...and I wished it didnt turn out that way...
And not really...Gau may not have talked about Tani/ Andy over and over again...but point is, she DID let these people get under her skin a little too often..even Kamya for that matter when these people had that big fight in the initial few epis...She has cried coz of all of them and I guess, I as a person have a personality where I dont believe in crying coz of people who dont matter to me. If someone I barely know has some crap to say about me, it rarely matters to me. I guess Gau is different as a person and I respect that...Like I said, it wasnt like it was anything wrong...but just that I wish she was a little stronger than that...she has let Tani get to her on more than the above mentioned instances...like during the final Weeks task etc...but thats besides the point.
But Thats EXACTLY what Tanisha did! she brushed stuff under the carpet because she didnt have a better option!😕😆She got out of things diplomatically...
Oh, Im not saying Gau has NEVER explained stuff to Ajaz in a calm manner...its not like shes BOSSY 24*7...point is what remains after 24*7...as a lasting impression, she definitely comes across as MORE BOSSY and LESS GENTLE...😆
I would still disagree with her thinking that Sangram was one of her 'closest' friends in the house. She felt that, she treated him like one but post the nomination epi where Sangram did not save her, ALL THAT CHANGED...It was clear to us viewers who saw a 44 minute epi that Sangrams close pals are Andy and Elli while Gau was wrapped in her whole world with Kush, then I fail to understand how Gau thought otherwise. WHY WOULD Sangram pick HER over Andy?😕and she kind of reprimanded him for his behavior. Arre, its CLEAR she is not important to him. Andy comes first. WHAT gives HER the right to take him to task regarding this? Im sorry, to each his own..I REALLY felt disappointed with her during those conversations she had with him right after getting back...
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