Originally posted by: musicfan5
@shastruji...hatke jawab mein to aap bhi piche nahi ho...
@shreya...mujhe laga hi ki tum aisa kahogi...prince charming doesn't always have to be tall dark handsome...its someone who loves u for what u are and understand u...and u will defo get him cause u deserve it...
True.
May I get someone like this.
But I am not very comfortable with the idea of whole arranged marriage..not because I don't trust my parents, I do. I really do.
Its just that I can't marry anyone I don't know. I need at least one year of courtship..and indian society doesn't allow that. You have to get engaged AT LEAST.
If things don't work out. engagement breaks off. Then what remains? A girl whose engagement was broken.
But that way I am lucky because even in my family once my sister's (cousin's) marriage broke off on the day of the marriage because the guy side's family were pestering a lot. And it was our family which broke off the wedding.
So I am fully secure in the knowledge that my family won't let anything wrong happen.
But still.
I might find someone nice, its not necessary that he'll find me the same.
Be it in an arranged marriage style or anything else.