The Dori that Binds #3-Members Only - Page 75

Originally posted by: boreddamsel

@Umz, well said.

Actually even my parents are related.

My mom's mother and my dad are second cousins or so. My parents knew each other from childhood, though they rarely spoke to each other. And my sister and I am perfectly fine.

Even a friend of mine from college fell in love with her cousin and got married recently. They thought the families will oppose but they didnt.

On my brother-in-law's side, most of his family is married to each other. My brother-in-law was the first to get married outside the family.

I am not against such relations honestly, because after seeing the state of arranged marriages around me, it's better to get married to someone you know .. well of course that doesn't mean you should be forced to marry someone you consider your brother.

Originally posted by: McNinja

Ugh hope I made sense..typing from a phone

Originally posted by: apara_loves_IPK

very true NB

I belong to a very conservative joint family and was kind of raised with the constant hammering that "we have a reputation...and being girls we always need to be extra careful about this and all that...my parents were more liberal but with so many elders even they couldn't say much"..we all played the goody girls, did what we were told to do but hell broke loose when my cousin sister fell in love with a Christian guy...I cant tell you it was like hell on earth for her..my uncle and aunty who loved her to bits ..her own parents locked her up..sent her away ...and literally made her life hell...

But she didnt give up and after a lot of struggle some part of the family agreed and there was a big fall out even within relatives...and eventually they got married...and they are very very happily married but still now even the immediate family has accepted them and they are very much a part of the family but some of the distant family and the neighbours still look at them as if they have done the most awful crime...she is a fighter so she brushes it off but I get so so cross and always end up fighting in every social occasion I attend..like for her own brother's wedding the priest didnt let her tie the scarfs as technically she is no more a Hindu ..although she hasnt changed her religion but technically she has after marriage and all that crap...

I really really hate this outrageous concern of people who just stick to the shallowness of religions and use it to their advantage...

Originally posted by: boreddamsel

Fairy, where do you keep disappearing?

Are you cheating on me? 😭

I am here for you... and you don't want to talk to me! 😭

You promised a duet .. and I am still alone 😭

Originally posted by: FairyLiquidSoap

<div></div>no darling multitasking between getting ready for a telecon and a err response to a bengali😉post in the forum and here

Originally posted by: sanja_here

i love cristiano... 😃 ...when he left MU...i changed myself on to real madrid... 😆

Originally posted by: FairyLiquidSoap

no darling multitasking between getting ready for a telecon and a err response to a bengali😉 post in the forum and here