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Posted: 16 years ago
#61
Thanks a lot, everyone for sharing your views! :-) I loved reading through all the posts. I still stand by my thought that a rule needs to be added. Mainly members that are NOT part of a CC are simply not allowed to post in the CC. It is as simple as that. Also, these members should NOT be permitted to click on the "LIKE" button either. Many of you brought up an interesting point about the "SEARCH" feature, and I concur with all of you that the "search" feature needs to disappear.

But, two questions to think about:

1. What happens on the CC that interests the other member to stalk?
2. What reasoning do you give the others to stalk your CC?

The credit for the two questions above goes to Gagan, the really sweet mod of the MJHT forum 🤗🤗

I will openly admit as a member I expect freedom of speech, and I'm not at all pleased when in some ways I cannot openly express my views. I also do feel that anything that happens in a CC is entirely only the business of the CC, yet we can't deny that IF is a public forum. Despite many of us assuming that the CC is a place only for only our friends - it is open to all members unless there is a way the CC can be locked with a password only for the members, but until then the CC will remain under public scrutiny.

Why do people feel the need to stalk a CC? Are they that bored? Do they enter the CC section, and randomly click on a CC to read? I mean some CC's in this section do not get a lot of views, yet we have other CC's getting a lot of views. What sets the CC that gets stalked apart from the others? Is it due to LOWEEEEE for all its members? ;-) What is the reason according to you?

I leave you to think about the two questions Gagan mentioned, and would love to hear your thoughts.
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Posted: 16 years ago
#62
i dont know what to say to that zainu 🤣 im going to shutup because i dont want a ban. Not before i sue IF anyway. And demand $10000 as a compensation (for the emotional attyachar we's all been through) so that all us ICians can runaway to the carribbean. 😳😆 aint i nice ?
Lets just say this certain stalker is a run away from the mental asylum. Is a homosexual, andddd has a fetish for hairy chested men. He/She is called ***** *****
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Posted: 16 years ago
#63
well lets see.. our last cc got 13000 + hits! 😲
we never even hit that mark with our bashes and all our members present. 😆
this is likely due to stalkers aka fans! and why did they choose to check us out?
likely becuz we discuss matters of all the forums there. we hav a diverse group that posts all over the forum. we are not obsessed with one pathetic thing. now why dont these ppl discuss these interesting topics in their own cc's instead on constantly reading our views? i cant answer that.. gonna hav to ask them.
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Posted: 16 years ago
#64

Originally posted by: x.sonia.x

well lets see.. our last cc got 13000 + hits! 😲
we never even hit that mark with our bashes and all our members present. 😆
this is likely due to stalkers aka fans! and why did they choose to check us out?
likely becuz we discuss matters of all the forums there. we hav a diverse group that posts all over the forum. we are not obsessed with one pathetic thing. now why dont these ppl discuss these interesting topics in their own cc's instead on constantly reading our views? i cant answer that.. gonna hav to ask them.



I just checked out 13K😆
yea as a matter of fact I would say IC has ppl who generally all over I-F and dont belong to any specific fan clutter
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Posted: 16 years ago
#65

LOL GG! I saw the edited title and I go 'Great, it seems as if the Mods arrived here to warn us with their lenghty warning signed as DEV Team.' But I was so relieved to see your note. Heheh.

I will reply back FO SHO tomorrow, but now I must hit the bed because I have........Um I forgot what it's called.
It's like a building where students attend to attain education. It also has some scary looking educators stuffing kids with information.
Um what else...Ya your life becomes a living hell.
I think it's called University. 😭
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Posted: 16 years ago
#66
Wait Wait People !!
Still no Replys From the MOD'S Here
Kahin Toh Something Happened to them?
They got Heart Failure
Or Did The Stalkers Kidnap Them
HAWWWWWWWWWWW
Another Mystery Yet To Be Unsolved

@Zainab- I dont even need to say i love you..you know i do..Every word of yours makes me get a fir Lmaoo 🤣
I love you in a stalker way
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Posted: 16 years ago
#67
gossip girl--nice post

we cant stop these stalkers...
they pressed like buttons too.... 😲
wish administrator do anything abt this
wish we had some passwords for our CCs

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Posted: 16 years ago
#68
@GG: Ppl stalk CCs for varied reasons.....some out of boredom, some cuz they are too shy/hesitant to actually post, and then there is the category that is being specifically referred to in this post.....the 'vengeful' kind who are out to 'punish' ppl who 'hurted' their feelings by saying that they didn't like their fav. character/actor....also known as their 'dear' ones🤔😆

So to answer Gagan's question....it is not about GIVING ppl a reason....ppl FIND reasons themselves....atleast that is how it seems to me.....say there are a 1000 ppl who read a post where someone said that they didn't like a scene/character's behavior in a post....why is it that out of 1000 ppl, only 2-3 will take it upon themselves to stalk the person who made that post and then proceed to go on a reporting spree after finding what they deem 'evidence' in their twisted minds??😕😕😆

I know the difference b/w a silent reader and a stalker.....I was a silent reader on IF for nearly two years before I started posting.....so I can understand why some ppl are hesitant to post and would rather just read the posts....but what I DON'T get is the crowd that likes to indulge in petty games like going around and stalking CCs or members just in order to 'punish' them. It really HAS to be 'lowe' only then I guess😕😆

You don't like a person or their way of expressing their views.....fine....but WHY would you proceed to make it your life's mission to STALK that person so dilligently??😕😆......Why not just IGNORE??? Is that really so difficult?? To try and find a life BEYOND stalking???
Edited by nureat01 - 16 years ago
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Posted: 16 years ago
#69

Originally posted by: nureat01

@GG: Ppl stalk CCs for varied reasons.....some out of boredom, some cuz they are too shy/hesitant to actually post, and then there is the category that is being specifically referred to in this post.....the 'vengeful' kind who are out to 'punish' ppl who 'hurted' their feelings by saying that they didn't like their fav. character/actor....also knows as their 'dear' ones🤔😆

So to answer Gagan's question....it is not about GIVING ppl a reason....ppl FIND reasons themselves....atleast that is how it seems to me.....say there are a 1000 ppl who read a post where someone said that they didn't like a scene/character's behavior in a post....why is it that out of 1000 ppl, only 2-3 will take it upon themselves to stalk the person who made that post and then proceed to go on a reporting spree after finding what they deem 'evidence' in their twisted minds??😕😕😆

I know the difference b/w a silent reader and a stalker.....I was a silent reader on IF for nearly two years before I started posting.....so I can understand why some ppl are hesitant to post and would rather just read the posts....but what I DON'T get is the crowd that likes to indulge in petty games like going around and stalking CCs or members just in order to 'punish' them. It really HAS to be 'lowe' only then I guess😕😆

You don't like a person or their way of expressing their views.....fine....but WHY would you proceed to make it your life's mission to STALK that person so dilligently??😕😆......Why not just IGNORE??? Is that really so difficult?? To try and find a life BEYOND stalking???



well said 👏
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Posted: 16 years ago
#70

If i may something regarding the topic being discussed here..

It does make sense to USE the like button appropriately, some ppl are just bored and incessantly keep pressing the like button unnecesarily. If I may add there's a reason to explain the "LIKE" Button.. Its a way to express sensibility of posts amongst a Hoard of senseless posts! So people are now using the like button where they need not and are not using it where they should! Unless there's some conduct installed into the systems of IF.. This matter might get worse too!

To the stalked..

And as far stalking is concerned.. I've encountered this myself too, where I've had to literally tell the person to back off! It does get very annoying at times to have one person follow u from one section to the other... It may be a coincidence once or twice but not every time! My idea to deal with such a situation would be to just report the posts in such case and maybe PM the Admins or even GMs to take some action against such individuals. Agreed, that it may not be a big step, but its something rather than nothing!

And to the Stalkers..

Think about it yourself.. how would YOU feel if someone stalked you! Isn't it creepy? So before u attack someone by stalking do think twice that this exactly may as well happen to you too..

Edited by -Rajveer- - 16 years ago

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