I posted my jumbled thoughts in another post and will just copy paste that here:
"My thoughts on this are that critisism comes with the role of a celebrity. If he cant take people critisizing his girlfriend, he needs to acknowledge her as his girlfriend- he has not. The smart thing to do, would be to ignore the messages, but if they were to get overwhelming there is a mature way to respond to them- he obviously didnt use it. He needs to realise that its because of the fans that he is a celebrity, swearing at them is not only highly immature but also like saying goodbye to his career. Without his fans he is nothing."
I dont know either of you girls personally but I totally agree with you.